I don't know if you find this interesting just as I do yet, I'm still hopeful to get opinions. I am a happily married woman and I am always trying to keep our marriage working, the same way that my husband does. I am lucky for that. We are always into the things that spices it up.

When you are newly weds, you caress each other so much, enjoy cuddling and being intimate - and they say as it ages marriage does devaluate. And what if for some reasons, marriage doesn't work anymore? You find no spark but the dark and no matter how much you try patching up, marriage does end to be a nightmare. How would you deal with it? Would it be easier and less hurting if you don't have kids yet to consider, or would it be just the same hell, when you lose the loving?