That's a difficult situation. I think it depends on the situation really. Often time I find that confronting doesn't work as some of the people can be closed minded and they won't budge and take opinions. Not saying that about everybody, just anytime it's been attempted that I've seen. I have no real idea what to do though, confront or leave it be. Bleh.
I was asked recently for a job application to provide URLs of my main social media site profile pages. In my case, the position for which I was applying was in fact a writing position FOR SOCIAL MEDIA SITES, and I can certainly see that they'd want to asses my degree of comfort in navigating those sites, however, I still declined expressing that although I had nothing to hide, my use of the sites was more for keeping up with friends and family, and for cathartic journaling purposes.
Most of my profiles were set as invisible to the common public but not for any untoward reasons, but simply more for my own privacy. Many of the things, although benign, were intensely painful. I am not ashamed of anything I've posted in this blog or my other social media sites, but this is something I would not want an employer or anyone not in my trusted circle reviewing at will.
I only maintain one or two publicly facing profiles and did provide those URLs, but if my others are not visible to anyone but my friends and family, you better believe there is no reason they have for wanting to see them.
They seemed to understand my response and so far, I'm still in the running for the job.
Only a bunch of goofy, elitist, arrogant fucking tools would actually surrender their personal sovereignty in this manner for a job! Does it come with knee-pads and a toothbrush? And God forbid they DON'T get the job, then where does all of that personal information go? Into a database that can be easily hacked? A drawer in a filing cabinet that can be easily accessed? Damn sheep!
I thought some of the alternative solutions were interesting: show the interviewer your FB page during the interview or make the city your friend on FB so they have access to your profile. It's interesting to note that in the old days when we actually talked to our friends or sent letters no one asked to sit in on our conversations to verify our integrity or to read our letters, except maybe in communist China and the Soviet Union where they didn't ask but just did it. But now that our words on frozen in cyberspace for all to see some employers want to take a look. How will things be in 20 years? How much access will people have to our "private lives" which we post in public domain?
There is visibly a huge gap between the real society and the bureaucratic shape of the government. What you say its exactly what i thought at first reading: years ago we had only to talk with someone, in our best suits and with our teeth brushed well to have a job, faking our drug test using other people pee and everything was fine. Or simply avoiding certain drugs that stay too long in our system. And resume their use later on once hired. We know that of all the drugs the less harmful (weeds) stay in our system the longest while cocaine dissolves a lot quicker...
But now they want to know what i feel on a Saturday night when i am out of friends or dates and i am at home all by myself maybe drinking too many beers and blogging stupidity??
So what if somebody looking for a job makes up a complete fake Facebook page...with fake references..with faked contacts, with faked pictures and give it to his future emploeyee and then delete the page once hired? Would that be ok?
That wouldn't be ok obviously. This is the line where ethics become controversial and the bureaucracy becomes increasingly nosy in the personal privacy of our lives.
Whatever happened to keeping the lives of work and at home entirely separate??
This is an complete invasion of privacy. I would be pissed off.
I don't see why employers would want to stick their heads in our personal business, which that would have nothing to do with them whatsoever, if we do have the capability to leave all our problems at home and still function as good employees at work.
Sheesh, for the government that needs something to jog their memory that we are still imperfect human beings, damn it, and we do have the right and freedom of speech, to privately express ourselves for eyes not meant for them.
Sydney....yes....it's like that other employee who fired a woman because she got one sick day and they found out she was chatting on some site......i mean......what she was doing during her sick day was none of her employee business....
She might have been sick all day until the moment she felt better and wanted to use some time chatting.
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