How do you feel about showing how turned on you are? If you're
anything like the average person, you'll probably discover that, at
least to some degree, you're somewhat sexually inhibited. It's hard
not to get that way in this world that's so conflicted about sex.
Sex is a reproductive necessity, a biological force, a wonderful
source of pleasure, a sweet way to demonstrate your love. We think
about sex all the time, which the media encourages by using sex to
sell. A recent study showed women do so every six seconds, men every
three seconds. When you welcome it, it's just about the best kind of
fun you can have.
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Frlncwrtr said on Sep 11, 2006....
varada:
I couldn’t agree with you more on your last line!
I guess my answer in general is that it depends on whom you are with and what kind of relationship you have with this person.
However, on a more personal level, I’ll have to say that I do not fall into your “average person” category. I do not have any problem showing my fiancée how turned on I am. She turns me on immensely each and every time and loves doing so. I am sure part of that is because we are very open with each other about everything, including sex.
I’m all for, “welcoming it!”
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scalywag said on Sep 11, 2006....
This is something on which I constantly work. A perpetual work in progress.
Some days are better than others though; my partner has such an affect on this.
when we both are in sync it's pure bliss. when we're not....the end result can be anything from bliss to frustration and hurt.
I sometimes find myself evaluating the risk of too much expression....but not as much as I used to.
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JadeLondon said on Sep 11, 2006....
Being insync with my partner really helps. If my husband is really into it, I feel it really frees me to show him how I feel. Then comes the more intense mews of pleasure, an eager grasping of the flesh.
It makes the whole experience much hotter.
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secretlife said on Sep 11, 2006....
I like feeling free enough to show my feelings- no matter if they're sexual.
I would say i have my own set of inhibitions.
Expressing whether i'm turned on doesn't happen to be one of them though.
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quidnunc said on Sep 11, 2006....
being inhibited to our partners is not good. holding back obfuscates the passion makes sex less enjoyable...
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scalywag said on Sep 11, 2006....
I express to my wife when I'm turned on I am much more often than she wants to hear it. So sometimes I keep that expression in check because I can tell she's not in that mood. And that is easier said than done. That is what I'm constantly working on.
I don't have any problem expressing it other than when she doesn't want to hear it. Usually I still do, and that's when the problem starts.
That's the context that my comment was made in.
We both have our own inhibitions but they align fairly close, so it's not much of a problem between us. At least I don't think it is. I guess I should ask her.
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varada said on Sep 12, 2006....
Understanding the partner's moods and expressing your own desire and have it accepted is the thrill of relationship.
I am happy that so many of you have responded without any inhibition.
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Tarts39 said on Sep 12, 2006....
i must agree with Frlncwrtr...
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Tarts39 said on Sep 12, 2006....
i must agree with Frlncwrtr...
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