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She found me here, she also found me on Facebook (I never used it and was registered under a different name, but there she is, all over my page).

She found me on another site where I blog about some of the more negative aspects of my life. She found me on a bulletin board site, where I have posted a lot about my private life. It doesn't seem to matter where I go, she constanly follows me, always leaving comments about how she feels about me, offering unsolicited advice on my personal life, or sending me Private Messages saying nothing more than Hi!

On Facebook she has commented on my photo, sent random sheep and hugs and other things.

I don't think it matters where I go, I think she will find me, last Christmas she even sent a Christmas card, to my house, not just to me, but to my WHOLE FAMILY.

Every now and then she pops up on IM too, I constantly get random emails, I don't reply to them but she just keeps sending them.

If I was to be eventually rid of this stalker, my life would change so much, the time I spend on my computer would be so empty, my day would be devoid of thoughts of a great friend, what a void it would create. Knowing that there is someone so determined to not let a friendship falter despite my culpability, in that department.

To come home and wonder just what little trinket she has left for me and where it will be left never fails to shine some light on my day, no matter how dark it has been. Thank you my friend for your (just a little bit scary ;) persistence.



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  • uniquely-ironic said on Jun 17, 2009....
    it sure is a fine line, isn't it?
  • gingersoul said on Jun 17, 2009....
    "Just a little bit"  is cute...warm....even necessary to lighten up the days...
    I have been very persistent in wanting to keep in touch with an online dear friend of mine after some circumstances put a different spin in our relationship....
     
    If he wouldn't have wanted he could have easily let me slip away.
    But he didn't, luckily....:-)
     
     
     So I think you like this Chud hunt ....;-p
     
    Otherwise you would already taken the necessary steps toward her, am I right?  
  • Chudditch said on Jun 17, 2009....
    U-I, it is a fine line, but I'm safe in the knowledge that this particular friend (stalker) would never cross that line.
    Ginge, absolutely, in fact it's a pleasant change to be able to leave a little something for her to find, I may have to be somewhat blatant in my clue leaving though as I'm not sure she would expect this, but every now and then it's good to break ones patterns.
  • MissMimi said on Jun 17, 2009....
    She sounds deranged, and in obvious need of psychiatric help.  ;)  I wouldn't encourage her if I were you.
     
    (And she is deeply touched...)
  • Chudditch said on Jun 17, 2009....

    I fear it is too late to not encourage her, and to try and dissuade her could cause all sorts of problems neither of us would enjoy. It's best to leave the satus quo.

    Well I think the touched comment falls under the TMI clause, I mean that's really personal you know. O L O                                                                                                                                          o

  • MindfulOne said on Jun 18, 2009....
    May I have time for a rebuttal?  Well, there's nothing to rebutt, she's a very neat stalker, as stalkers go.
     
     
  • sweetsoul said on Jun 20, 2009....
    lol I agree with Mimi...and MindfulOne :D
     
    Nice to see a post from you.

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