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Did you read the story about the blogger that got caught in her own lie?

She wrote of being pregnant and unmarried and decided to give birth to the baby even though the baby was supposed to be terminally ill.


Thousands of people prayed for her unborn baby. They sent her donations, They cried when she said the infant died just hours after birth. It turns out she was never even pregnant, and the whole thing was a sham. Now she's got a lot of explaining to do.

Her website had nearly a million hits. When she posted a picture of herself with a swaddled-up doll, the jig was up.


The picture was of a doll that one reader actually owned and many people recognized it as a doll and not a baby. The lie soon unraveled to the outrage of all the people that kept up with her blog.


She admits now that the entire story was made up and she wasn't a single expectant mother who lay awake at night terrified her unborn child would die at any time, She is a 26-year-old social worker from the Chicago suburb of Mokenka who says she didn't know how to free herself from the web of lies she wove. "Soon I was getting 100,000 hits a week, and it just got out of hand,"

 The woman's story about giving birth to a child diagnosed while in the womb as terminally ill hit a nerve. Every night for the last two months, thousands of abortion foes from across the nation logged onto a blog run by the woman who said she was unmarried, pregnant and identified herself only as "B" or "April's Mom."

People said they prayed that God would save her pregnancy. They e-mailed her photos of their children, shared tales of heartache and redemption and sent letters of support and gifts.
 

When the hoax blew up she deleted her website and Twitter and Facebook accounts. It was too late, however. Someone found out her true identity: She said she knows it was wrong  but she was so caught up in the lie and the attention that she couldn't stop.

She has since apologized for the lie but I would not want to be in her shoes, that is why it pays to tell the truth.

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  • superbozo said on Jun 15, 2009....
    WOW......Now thats a story worth blogging hehehe. I wouldn't like to be in her shoes either. Did she return the money and gifts?
  • MsStar39 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    SB  no, she said that she didn't get that much and tried to act like she gave it to charity, remeber that she is a pathological liar.
  • superbozo said on Jun 15, 2009....
    Unreal.... I wonder what she'll say for a sequal :)
  • PersonaNonGrata said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I hate people like that.  Seriously. 
  • simplyconfused said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I don't understand why she would even start that in the FIRST place.. really what compelled her to just start a blog saying she was pregnant with a terminally ill baby, and unmarried... I really don't understand people. *sigh*
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I'm not so much offended that she lied, but that she took advantage of other people's good will and accepted money.  It's one thing to lie, you only hurt yourself, but to lie in a way that takes advantage of another person is beyond wrong.  I hope someone prosecutes her for larceny or some offense for taking the money.  Perhaps she can blog from jail, if anyone will read it.
  • javadewd said on Jun 15, 2009....
    That's too funny... Maybe the Octo-mom has half a chance now! At least she's got the goods -- all 14 of them!!
  • Hegemone said on Jun 15, 2009....
    Wow, that's absolutely unbelievable.  Especially considering she's a social worker and most likely knows about all of the emotion going on with something like that, she should know better than to lead people on with things like that.  For that kind of stuff, she deserves never to have internet access again so she can't do the same thing at some other point.  That was a horrible thing to do.
  • fragglesrock said on Jun 15, 2009....

    don't even know what to say about this....ugggh :(

  • travelr712 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    we've had one or two incidents like that here in the past, but they're usually uncovered pretty quickly before things get too far along.
  • Blomma said on Jun 15, 2009....
    That is awful and unbelievable.....leaves one speachless and shaking their head...
  • diabolicdame said on Jun 15, 2009....

    Thats pretty terrible.. I'd be very pissed off if I was one of the people following that blog!

  • one_wired_kitty said on Jun 15, 2009....
    That's just sick!
  • Barnabus1 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I have found that pathological liars have a common trait...NONE have a love for the Lord!!  Truth is of God, and they being so far from God, hate truth, and will lie even where the truth would fit easier and better!!
  • MsStar39 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    Personal  i hate a liar to.

    SimplyC a lot of people start lying on blogs to get attention and once  she found out that the lie was working she couldn't stop.

    Uni she hurt a lot of people and she should do some time.

    JD she is sick in the head to pull something like this.

    Hege now that she has been caught in this huge lie she will realize how horrible it was.

    Fraggles it is unbelievable.

    travelr it is sad that people need attention that bad.

    Blomma i was speechless when i read it the first time.

    DD I would be pissed and think of those that sent her money.

    Kitty it is really sick.

    Barnabus very true.
  • dyingman said on Jun 15, 2009....
    College kids, take note.
    A sociology major could do THIS, to YOU.

  • CreativeWoman said on Jun 15, 2009....
    That's quite a hoax she pulled.  She'll probably make a zillion dollars now telling her story.

    CW
  • beyondtheveil said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I've wondered how people handle ultimately embarrassing things like this. How do you go on, how does she go to work? I'm not saying she should end it, but how does she go on with life? I guess its called dying of embarrassment, but not dying. 
  • wombat said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I can see "getting caught up in the lie and the attention."  But that's later.  Why on earth would someone think of starting such a lie in the first place?  Guess she thought she would remain anonymous, but still.....
  • MsStar39 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    DM very true.

    CW I hope not but she might.

    Beyond I am sure it is hard for her to show her face because this story has been well publicized with the picture of her and the doll that she tried to pass off as a real baby.

    wombat I guess she thought that she needed to do something to get people to read her blog, some people will do anything for attention.
  • mixednuts said on Jun 15, 2009....
    what a twisted sister that was!
  • MsStar39 said on Jun 15, 2009....
    mixednut real twisted to carry on a lie that long.
  • JusticeForAll said on Jun 15, 2009....
    The fact that someone could even think up a lie like that is sickening, let alone taking from the very people she lied to! Isn't there a law against people de-frauding others for selfish and non-charity purposes?
  • Lioness said on Jun 15, 2009....
    Maybe she intended to tell a lie all the while, too confident she would not get caught. The nerve for using emotions to get attention.  
  • MissMimi said on Jun 15, 2009....
    I knew someone who concocted a whole life, none of it true.  It's pretty easy to do online.  When it unraveled, and it WILL unravel, I'm sure it was very traumatic for her.  She was a pathological liar.  Not excusing what she did, and she kind of deserved what she got, but I did feel some pity for her.
  • bhalah said on Jun 15, 2009....
    pity, make the people, unbelive the ones who said truths ,,,oh!
  • hotaka said on Jun 15, 2009....
    So that's what it takes to get people to give a damn! Let's see if I can come up with a good sympathy story too.

    Hmm...

    Help, my testicles have swollen to the size of footballs! Photos posted on my flickr site!

  • MsStar39 said on Jun 16, 2009....
    Justice if there isn't a law against it it should be.

    Lioness probably so, it is just beyond me that someone would want attention that bad.

    MissMimi unbelievable that they would concoct a whole life like that. Why do they think that the truth will never come out, it always does so it's best not to do it.

    bhalah, very true.

    hotaka that is not really what it takes, we have a lot of loving people on SC that really care about each other and have a genuine concern for each other.

    I think that some people get a little upset when they don't get the attention and comments on their blog like some of the more popular blogger's do.
    I sometime see people begging for someone to visit their blog.

    This lady wasn't getting the attention that she wanted and she told this big lie to get that attention.

  • hotaka said on Jun 16, 2009....
    Yes, we do have a lot of loving people here that genuinely care for one another. It's nice to offer prayers to a stranger in trouble but I prefer the atmosphere here where month after month and even year after year (two or three years for some of us) people still follow each other's trials and tribulations. It's one thing that I have always enjoyed about SC, the sense of community. Who needs 10,000 hits when you have friends like these?
  • javadewd said on Jun 16, 2009....
    Popularity vs. Friends -- Also don't blame a Soc degree for the sociopath...
  • bhalah said on Jun 16, 2009....
    hotaka, wheres your flickr sit?
  • queenparanoia said on Jun 16, 2009....
    this is just a sad story....
  • MsStar39 said on Jun 16, 2009....
    Hotaka  we do have a sense of community here that is wonderful.

    JD I will take the friends anyday.

    Queen it really is.
  • blueraven6 said on Jul 25, 2009....
    For a positive take on this story:

    Look at all those people who loved together!

    For that time, they forgot about themselves, and really loved.

    I like that.

    What do you think?

    blueraven6
  • MsStar39 said on Jul 25, 2009....
    Blue I think you are right.
  • JadeLondon said on Aug 05, 2009....
    A social worker? The irony! Thanks for the link. Somehow, I missed this story. Hope life finds you well, MsStar.
  • MsStar39 said on Aug 05, 2009....
    Jade thank you.

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