• TheThinker said on May 31, 2009....

  I once heard a man in grief about his wife tell me:
  '' Once a woman lets herself fall, she can't have dreams like other people''
  
  you can't look at someone once your hearts broken, give it a little time,
  when the dust settles you'll know what to do.
  

• secretlife said on May 31, 2009....

  you're the only one who can say for sure....

• gingersoul said on May 31, 2009....

  Its a pretty classic situation, actually.
  We want what we can't have ...when we have it, we don't want it anymore.
  
  I think that you wanted to have back the ideal of him, more than him.
  He is back now, but that ideal is only in the past. He is the present, but you are not. That's why you are so confused.
  
  I think you are the one who needs time to figure out al of this now.
  
  And thats ok too.
  

• queenparanoia said on Jun 01, 2009....

  do you really love him? because second chances are rare and if ever taht happens it sould feel right.... but give it time... maybe it could grow in you...

• Hegemone said on Jun 01, 2009....

  Yes, I'm left to wonder ... are you asking us, or are you asking yourself those questions?  If you've got to ask, maybe you need to really take some time and figure out why you wanted that second chance.  Love?  Familiarity?  Comfort zone?  I mean, it's got to be for the right reasons and you're the only one who will know whats right for YOU.  Be up front about it from the start though, it will save both of you heartache and time if necessary and your relationship will be able to re-bloom so much more properly.  You deserve to be happy, and I mean REALLY happy, not false happiness that you THINK you want ... know what I mean?

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