ok....so I ask you.....is being lied to worse than being faced with the truth, even if the truth is bad?  i'm thinking that being lied to is more hurtful...because when the truth does come out...and it usually does you are faced with two situations that are bad. 

i was lied to again.  and i know he knew i know the truth.  oh god the words are not very clear.  it's hard to write because i am so upset/pissed.  he told me he wouldn't call that guy again...but he did, i saw it on the cell phone bill. its a big deal...he told me to cancel the phone....but canceling the phone wont stop him...

we aren't together...but i can't go down with him. what do i do. drugs and out of control.  i don't know what to do