(taken from http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?p=873385#post873385 , so not mine, both worth sharing)
A mediocre Dom tells
An average Dom instructs
A good Dom teaches
A true Dom inspires
WyldWyl posted on May 18, 2009
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pusscat said on May 18, 2009....
This is most scary to say the least. He says he used to be a Dom! He may have thought he was a Dom but I think it's an insult to the BDSM community for him to even use that title. It is people like this that give the rest of the scene a bad name. I can't understand why he can't put the effort and energy into explaining things properly to his wife. There are some beautiful written pieces on sites like 'Seekers' that he could show her. His poor wife probably thinks the whole D/s lifestyle is all about rough sex and bodage! Where's the honesty? Communication? Consent? RESPECT?! I see no respect towards his wife whatsoever. I hope and pray for her sake that he takes on board what the others have said in this thread.
The quote by morwyn is lovely and so, so true.
Thanks for sharing this Wyl. It is a minefield out there enough for single, inexperienced subs but to realise there are husbands out there willing to go to these lengths to get what they want with their own wives!?. . .as I said in the beginning, scary.
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WillsRose said on May 18, 2009....
*sigh*jerk.thankYou for sharing Sir. -
nonameneeded said on May 19, 2009....
in that case wyl... you must be a true Dom.
(holy crap i'm feeiln sappy!)
your posts are in fact inspiring to me as a younger Dom still working the taboo's that my parents forced upon me out of my head and exploring feelings and emotions that i have been forced to avoid.
somehow you can find ways to put into words what i think but cannot grasp...
i guess for now im stuck instructing until i can learn to teach...
eh, whatever...
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WyldWyl said on May 20, 2009....
Well...uhhh...thank you. Not sure what to say, but I'm glad I've been able to help out.
However...as Isaac Newton said, if I have seen far, it is only because i have stood upon the shoulders of giants. Honestly, I'm the product of the people who I learned from, but I'm still pleased that I've been of some use to you.
If you want to chat through msn/yahoo sometime, just send me a message with your address in it
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