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While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son,picked up stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench.At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....with painful eyes,he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless, he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions......
Sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches.....The child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'. The next day that man committed suicide.
 
Anger and Love have no limits,

Things are to be used and people are to be loved,
But the problem in today's world is that,people are used and things are loved...


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  • Lucytorial said on May 12, 2009....
    You realise I just woke up? thank you, this little thought will stay with me the whole day.
     
    ♥ fuzzies CJ
  • uniquely-ironic said on May 12, 2009....
    Shit!  I understand being upset, but that's when good parents send themselves into time out to avoid such things.  (yes, I've sent myself into time out a number of times)
  • fragglesrock said on May 12, 2009....
    wow, what a post cj. dammit! that makes me sad :(
  • wishyouwerehere said on May 12, 2009....

    "Things are to be used and people are to be loved"

    We can all use a reminder like this, I'm afraid.

    Hugs, CJ - Wishy

  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on May 12, 2009....

    :(

    paper ~
  • Hegemone said on May 12, 2009....
    That is a haunting story, and a great lesson.  More people should have to read that.  It's something to stop and make you think.  Thank you for sharing this.
  • travelr712 said on May 12, 2009....
    very poignant cj. but it's not just in today's world, it's the way it's always been. maybe someday it'll be said 'that's the way it used to be'?
  • queenparanoia said on May 12, 2009....
    sad isnt? some people nowadays are more concern with materialistic possesion than their own famly...
  • ipmat said on May 13, 2009....
    reading this made my mind go back coupla years,when i bought my first car (second hand).a friend asked me whether he could take it for a spin .the car came back smashed my friend was sorry and did not have the money to fix it up.at that time i told him no problem its just a material thing we will get it fixed ,that it took me another three months to garner the cash was immaterial and  coupla years later when my friend bought a new car the first thing he told me was  "we have a car mate" and our friendship has lasted all these years
    the above story had me thinking as to whether the worlds becoming too materialistic

  • fromtheheart said on May 13, 2009....
    i read that story years ago,and it still has the same effect as the first time I read it..

    We sometimes give more importance to material wealth that we forgot the best things in life..


  • crybabylu said on May 13, 2009....
    I'm speechless!...:-(
  • Voltaire said on May 13, 2009....
    Well, ouch. I don't bother to much, as long as I am capable of doing what I want it's ok.
    Otherwise I will make sure that I can, there is not only one road to the destination.
  • mixednuts said on May 14, 2009....
    This was great! Was it a semi rant?

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