• cntlvmenuf said on May 09, 2009....

  As a single female myself, I feel ya. Our society is not exactly kind to single people I can tell you that much. But it does sound like you've won the battle...and realized that life goes on, needs to go on, regardless of our marital status.
  
  All the best to ya! Keep on taking life by the horns, be open to whatever and just enjoy being you.
  

• secretlife said on May 09, 2009....

  this is the healthy way-  don't put too much pressure on yourself.  do the things you like to do- want to do- need to do.  when you aren't looking, when you least expect it, you will meet someone.  and you'll be ready because you've been figuring it all out on your own beforehand!

• travelr712 said on May 09, 2009....

  i've come to find that romance is overrated. sure it's nice when it's fresh and new, but that wears off, and what is left has so far not been very kind to me, or me to it, or whatever, just not too successful. being alone does have it's advantages. nobody nagging at me about where i leave my socks, dishes get done when i feel like it, and everything's right where i put it.

• queenparanoia said on May 09, 2009....

  i totally agree with you... ;-)

• Hegemone said on May 09, 2009....

  Well I'm so happy that you're getting comfortable in your single skin!  Take advantage while you can and enjoy the hell out of life!

• fromtheheart said on May 09, 2009....

  single is sexy... another single lady here... For me being single is having more time with myself... I have more time to think what am I really looking for in a man...Others don't want to be single, afraid of being alone so they end up having partner that they don't really love at all... which gives the word commitment meaningless...

• RollingC said on May 10, 2009....

  Should read *makes the word commitment meaningless*
  And from a man's point of view I also agree with your statement.
  Rc

• mOOn_platOOn said on May 10, 2009....

  O

  Everyone who's okay being single seems to be plotting for the relationship to come....

  It's better to be alone than with the wrong person....

  It's better to be with someone who's "Okay" rather than be totally alone...

  It's better all around if you've experienced one or two extremely passionate affairs that never had a chance but were amazing as they unfolded....

  I know that you can have the prettiest, smartest mate and still have no sparks...or superficial ones. Objective standards are irrelevant to love.

  Can you be happy if you realize that you might just be alone for 82% of your entire future?

  O

• RollingC said on May 10, 2009....

     *Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.*
  I forget who was the first to say that but I also totally agree.  Knowing the feeling of Love is a powerfull experience.
  Rc

• fromtheheart said on May 10, 2009....

  I think it is from Alfred Lord Tennyson's poem In Memoriam:27, 1850:

  I hold it true, whate'er befall;
  I feel it, when I sorrow most;
  'Tis better to have loved and lost
  Than never to have loved at all.

• travelr712 said on May 10, 2009....

  you hit it right on the nail fth. ain't google the shit? :-)

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