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I think I have officially have hit my limit dealing with people who can walk into the room and can literally suck the lifeforce out of it with their negativity.  I am almost ready to tell this person to go  fuck himself but I decided to leave the room. I don't know how much more I can take.
 
How do you handle toxic people?


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  • secretlife said on May 08, 2009....
    i don't know many people who are toxic-
    if leaving doesn't work, then maybe you just have to take him aside and fill him in?
  • queenparanoia said on May 08, 2009....
    ignore them or just say it.... fuck off...
  • superbozo said on May 09, 2009....
    I'm with Queenie tell them to go fuck themselves. Write down why first. That way when you tell them to go fuck themself, you will hopefully remember all the reasons why they should go fuck themself.
  • andora said on May 09, 2009....
    how someone named princessbitch can complain about other peops being toxic just show me that paradox is the human condition

    ungrounded positivity is what triggers me

    smiling faces with concealed knives really irritates me - is that negative?

    without a negative polarity none of us would be in a body for long

    we all have negative and positive - laws of nature

    as demonstrated by your post, the majority of folks have demonized the negative polarity and insist that the dark forces are at work, when the truth is that all the "good" and "nice" peops have denied their negativity in the name of survival or love. making them polarize into really nice people and really nasty toxic people

    me, my best friends are those who have nothing left to lose, they be more honest than all the posturing about mean and nice

    i'm only nice when i feel like it - which would explain why toxic folk don't bother with me...

    in your case pbitch you denied your toxic side until it showed up as a toxic asshole making you say toxic things about those assholes....silly paradoxical rant like a snake eating its own tail

    change the paradigm that makes our negative truth stay hidden until it takes us over, this paradigm does not serve any of us and forces us to waste our time trying to think of clever things to say to assholes to put them in their place

    and ignoring them is just another way of ignoring what the Universe wants you to consider

    gee why is it a different day, different asshole but a bloody de ja vu after all once again?

    lose the paradigm

    i offer a new one for free here bc i can
  • andora said on May 09, 2009....
    when it comes to my own toxic asshole tendancies - i stay home and vent so i won't get too much of it on my neighbors bc my own denied negativity is indiscriminate and doesn't care who suffers from my own denial...as a hermit i have this privilege

    i stay separate bc this polarization in the population is getting violent

    so staying home and off of the road during a scorpio full moon while the group winds up to a group clusterfuck is judicious to say the least!

    i don't know if many of you noticed, but folks are disturbed and disturbing - i feel pretty sad and that is a healthy response to a society that is polarized and at war with itself!
  • speaking_up said on May 09, 2009....
    When I was pregnant, it seemed like everyone was pregnant.
     
    When my son died, it seemed I ran into a lot of grieving mothers.
     
    When I am focused on anything, it seems to come my way in droves.
     
    Law of attraction is right.  Now, how do I shake my horrors off?  Let's stop bitching and start figuring out how to make it better. 

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