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Let's talk about the person of your dreams.

My cousin and I were talking about bras during lunch. We then talked about breasts and how it actually defines beauty for some men, which I find idiotic. Come on! Don't tell me that if I had double F's or G's then that's when you'll call me beautiful! I'm proud although sheepish to say that I'm a B cup and I've been called beautiful. *hides*

ANYWAY, from bras, beauty, breasts, it came to how you never end up marrying the girl/guy of your dreams. I have a guy cousin, who absolutely loved bigger breated women, marry somebody who was not. I have another cousin who didn't want tall girls, but his wife inches taller than he was. My mom hates guys who smoke, but my dad was one when they got together. My aunt was turned off by bald men. Her husband was bald.

WHY DON'T WE GET THE PERSON WE DREAM OF MARRYING?!

It scares the blood off my face. I'm scared that instead of marrying somebody respectable, somebody who'll be proud of me, somebody who'll cherish me for the rest of his life, I'll end up marrying somebody who's an ex-con, somebody who won't want to be seen with me, somebody who disrespects me.

(These are just some of the issues I have of marriage.) If you didn't know, I'm scared of getting married. I don't want to be married. Ever.

Tell me HONESTLY. Did you marry the person of your dreams?


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  • prettywife said on Sep 05, 2006....
    i did marry my dream man, because i just thought of somebody who would treat me like a princess....i guess,it was our situation now that i didn't dream about. you know, i used to daydream that when i tie the knot, i'll be a fulltime housewife and eagerly wait for him each aftrenoon he comes home. but it can never be since he works abroad and comes home only every year. Don't be scared, because it's really true, when you finally meet that man you'll marry, you wouldn't care anymore about those dreams...that's why...love exist..just fall in love and you'll never go wrong...
  • anarchist said on Sep 05, 2006....
    prettywife, so let me get this straight, you married the man you dreamt of, except that it's not much of a dream "marriage" ? I'm glad that you're happy with your.. er, choice and you sound like you're happily married!

    Don't worry. I'm just a 22-yearold PETRIFIED of marriage. Don't take offense!
  • CreativeWoman said on Sep 05, 2006....
    I wouldn't say my husband was the man of my dreams when I married him. I swore I would never marry a farmer. I did love him with all my heart at the time though. I didn't realize he was going to love the farm more than me in the end. That realization changed things for me.

    CW
  • anarchist said on Sep 05, 2006....
    Hence, I think, CW, "why don't we get the person of our dreams?"
  • amanhecer said on Sep 08, 2006....
    I have found the person of my dreams. I love him, and would love to marry him someday..sooner. lol!

    *cielo
  • anarchist said on Sep 08, 2006....
    I hope you do!
  • Misty_Eyed said on Nov 09, 2009....
    by definition, a dream that becomes reality is no longer a dream.

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