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It feels like a while since I last sat down to post anything. Life took over. I found a job. Don't get to excited because today I quit said job.
 
Last week I responded to an add for a Carpenter. Met up with the owner of the buisness and knew straight away that he would employ me. I got the call Friday afternoon to start Monday. So I turned up for work and my first impressions of the owner being a reasonable man very quickly changed. He immediately started barking about this and that. We were putting a deck on the side of a Queenslander. (a wooden house sat on posts) The preparation work had already been done. I started to inspect what we were to do and immediately called his attention to some problems that I could see. His responce was to skirt round the issue with we can fix later. I started to point out how once the deck was in place you would not be able to fix these problems. He quite agressively dismissed my fears.
 
I took a deep breath and decided to play it his way. Head down and arse up I got to work on the outside bearer. Making sure it was at the correct height and distance. Owner left me to it while he started working under the house. I put the end and middle joists into place single handedly. Not easy when your talking 3 meter lenths of hardwood. Owner came and went throughout the day leaving me to my own devices. So I fixed the earlier problems as I went to ensure things got done properly. Owner came back just in time for knock off. I by now had all the joists I needed cut to size and more than half in place. I considered it quite an acheivement considering the size of the deck and the fact I was left to do the work alone. Owner didn't agree. What about this and that. When I have all the joists in place I'll tie that down and do this Blah Blah. I felt like telling him to wake up to himself but decided tomorrow was another day.
 
I arrived tuesday to find I was on my own. I got straight into it anyway. Putting the rest of the joists into place. I worked through morning smoko to lunch to ensure that all were in place and secured properly. Owner turned up looked around and started to ask questions about things under the house. It was becoming obvious to me that this guy did not have a clue. I basically had to show him what to do. Whilst I was giving him the benefit of my knowledge he continued to complain about this and that. Not about me or my work but about other things unrelated. I decided I didn't like him during that conversation. Apparently my daughter would be better off with her mother, I didn't have certain things he thought a man my age should have. This idiot had an opinion on everything. I kept my mouth shut and got on with my work.
 
Today I turned up at work. Alone again. I noticed that the owner had made a real hash of things under the house. He wasn't there so I decided to start fixing his F ups. He turned up about an hour later. He took immediate offence to the fact that I was fixing things. I  had enough. I was calm but explained my opinion on the quality of work and how I with 20 years experience would not except that quality of work if it was my house. Then he made the mistake of his life. Instead of questioning work pratices he went after my personal life as he saw it. Once he mentioned my daughter that was it. I let him know exactly what I thought of him and his quality of work. I didn't hold back. He retreated backwards as I all puffed up let him have it. I still do not know how I resisted the urge to punch the bloke but I did. It all ended with stick it where the sun don't shine. I told him how much he was going to be paying me for my 2 days work and that I would be there tomorrow for my money. Packed up my tools and left.
 
I will return for my money tomorrow. I am also going to put a call through to council. They really need to keep an eye on this arsehole. I want a job. There is no way however that I will do a half arsed job on anyones house no matter how desparate money is. (it's not real desperate by the way which made the decision easier)
 
There it's gone finished with.  **deep breathes**
 
I know these arseholes exsist. I for one will never allow myself to be poisoned by them.
 
Yep I feel good now.
 
 


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  • beyondtheveil said on Apr 28, 2009....
    super- I worked in carpentry when younger and loved it by the way. The only reason I got out was to find a place with medical and retirement. But the knowledge I gained in carpentry has served me so well through the years. I wouldn't have traded that knowledge for anything. 
  • CayenneMan said on Apr 28, 2009....
        You did the right thing. I can't do anything half-ass either. If I'm going to do something, I'm going to do it right or not at all.
        I know of an investment firm that built a shopping mall on a past swampland even though the engineers, architects and builders were uncomfortable about the idea and suggested a different location. The investment firm insisted on going on with the original plan. After 5 years the parking garage collapsed and several sections of the mall buckled . It all had to be torn down, it was a total loss. Where do these people come from ? They ain't worth a fuck !
  • Hegemone said on Apr 28, 2009....
    Wow, what a jack ass that guy was.  Trying to cheat the client so he can profit for it?  That's a crock of bull.  Glad you stood your ground and quit.  There is no time at all whatsoever that it's acceptable for an employer to choose to discuss your home life with you, and vice versa if you really want to get technical.  Especially nobody should critique the others' life at all!  He had it coming, it sounds like to me, and even though YOU didn't knock his ass out, I bet somebody else will a little ways down the road if he keeps his smarmy bull shit up.  Glad you're outta that mess, you don't need to go falling down into the harbor with that one.
  • superbozo said on Apr 28, 2009....

    beyond, I love my work and watching a house come together to be a home. I truely enjoy what I do. I've tried now and then to do something else, but that only enforces how much I love doing carpentry. I really couldn't imagine doing anything else.

    CMan, I do not know how some people sleep at night. Someone is paying this guy a lot of money to do a job on their HOME. I have a pride in the quality of work that I do. Low lifes like this bloke just get me fired up. I'll never understand why some people can't accept good advice from the people they employ. Especially when it is obvious they know what their talking about.

  • uniquely-ironic said on Apr 28, 2009....

    the man sounds like an egotistical asshole!  I doubt I would have lasted 2 days.  No one has the right to comment on your life with a small possible exception of certain family members.

    I missed seeing you here, so I'm a little bit happy the job didn't work out so you can lollygag here with us ;)

  • superbozo said on Apr 29, 2009....
    Hege, You snuck in on me there. He was a jack ass. He knew nothing about me except that I am a single father who didn't own his own home. He was very judgemental on many things he obviously knew nothing about. I would love to see someone put him on his ass. Still theres always tomorrow when I go back for my money lol.
     
    G'Day Uni, I knew very quickly that my first impression was wrong. I would have loved the job to have worked out, but lollygaging here with you guys is just fine by me. :)
  • travelr712 said on Apr 29, 2009....
    i think you did the right thing sb. you know as well as i that your name will go on that job even if he is the owner, which means your reputation could suffer because of his bad practices. guys like that are what give contractors a bad name.
  • fragglesrock said on Apr 29, 2009....
    oh yeah, you talk about my kids and it's on like donkey kong.  what an ignorant jack ass. i really hope that something better comes your way soon :(
  • superbozo said on Apr 29, 2009....
    Update:
    Just got back from seeing the D-head. He had my money ready so no problems there. Later today I'm calling the council to dob him in for his dodgy practices. I can only hope they sort him out and make him comply with building regulations.
     
    Hi trav, There was no way I wanted to be associated with the quality of work he had to offer. I hope the council can keep a close eye on him. His work has to be approved by council in the end. I'm sure he is good at covering his tracks. Hopefully though they will catch him out.
     
    Hi frags, Something good will turn up I'm sure. I still can't believe he thought he knew enough about me to comment on my personal life. Still I had plenty of ammo to hand back to him at the end. :)
  • javadewd said on Apr 29, 2009....
    I wouldn't have taken any shit off that asshole, either. I applaud your patience. I had a boss once who was always getting into my personal life. She was a bitter divorcee who hated men. I took shit every day for one full year [of working for this large corporation] and on my very anniversary, she was going to give me a raise. I gave her the bird. I actually took a pay cut to go to a better job. Boy that boiled the blood around her black heart!

  • Lioness said on Apr 29, 2009....
    Some people cannot accept the fact that there are people who do know their job and do it well. At least you won't have to bear with his attitude anymore, especially his nosy and unsolicited advice on your personal life.

    He's gonna learn his lesson.
  • superbozo said on Apr 29, 2009....
    Hi java, Sometimes it's better to take less money and have job satisfaction thats for sure. I think the only reason I stayed for 2 full days was because he kept disappearing which left me alone to do the things correctly. He certainly didn't have much to say to me today when I turned up for my money.
     
    Hi Lioness, I would love to see him learn his lesson. Who knows maybe he'll learn something based on his experience with me. I doubt it but you never know.
  • javadewd said on Apr 29, 2009....
    So he did pay you, right?
  • SlickNick said on Apr 29, 2009....
    Hello I read and just wanted to give you a pat on the back and say "Good for you!". Maybe that's what that guy needed to hear to get his arse in gear. Then again even if he doesn't at least you didn't let that bastard walk all over you. You should always stand for what you believe in and never take shit from anyone that tells you different. 
  • superbozo said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Hi java, Yeah he paid me. I even told him how much lol. He handed the money over this morning without a word.
     
    Hi Nick, I never take shit if I can help it. I turned a deaf ear to his stupid remarks just to see if he would shut up. When that failed he got both barrels. He recoiled quite quickly too. Lifes to short to allow this sort of a-hole to get to you. I like to be happy in my work. That way I'm happy when I pick my little girl up and go home at night. Thanks for popping in.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Hey super!  just stopping by to see if all went well with getting paid.  I'm glad he didn't make a ruckus or anything. 
  • hotaka said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Well, at least there's a carpenter out there who takes pride in doing a good job! (I know, there are many.) Good on you for trying to make the project as good as possible. But that Mr. Butthole started taking swipes at your personal life is so totally unprofessional, not to mention downright rude, that I don't blame you for alerting the council about him. Oh, I know you will tell them about his unprofessional approach to carpentry, but it would feel good to stuff him for his own rudeness.
    He'd better have paid you!
  • superbozo said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Hi uni, I turned up this morning with my best murderous mood poker face lol. He didn't even look me in the eye as he handed the cash over. The ball is now in councils court. I was informed by them that he has a number of complaints against him already. So it looks like he'll get his as I told them what to look for.
     
    Hi Hotaka, Money is in my wallet and council now know what to look for when they inspect. He is lucky his personal swipes didn't result in me taking swings lol. There was a time not so long ago when more than his ego would have ended up bruised. I have had to grow up a little for miniboz sake. Whats that saying
    "Stress is the emotion caused by not choking the living shit out of some arsehole that really deserves it"  :)
  • SlickNick said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Bahwhahahah! I love the quote. I'm so glad you got paid and there wasn't a big scene. You sound like you really know your trade well and I'm sure you'll get a job soon. Good luck with finding a better job and hopefully finding one with a decent boss.
  • gingersoul said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Super......hope you are going to find another job soon....good luck..:-)
     
    I think you line of job will always be on demand...
     
    Plus, carpenters are so sexy....LOL...
  • superbozo said on Apr 30, 2009....
    Hi Nick, It's a good quote init. There are plenty of companies looking for good carpenters. The problem I'm having is finding one that has lots of local work. It's a small town and most companies have plenty of work but in neighbouring towns. It's just that as a single parent I can't travel to far. Thats why I've had 3 employers in 22 months. Not including this 2 day job.
     
    Hi Ginger, Something will turn up soon I'm sure.....and yes us carpenters are a sexy bunch.....me especially ;-P
  • gingersoul said on Apr 30, 2009....
     
     

     
    Super......LOL....and who am I to doubt it?....;-p
     
    Hey, are you one of the Village People for a chance?....lol...
     
     
     
  • superbozo said on Apr 30, 2009....
    I'm far better looking and I prefer the ladies to the lads ...lol    :P
  • SlickNick said on May 01, 2009....
    Well I sure hope you can find something local. If everything else fails could you be your own contractor?
  • javadewd said on May 01, 2009....
    Sounds like a great idea. I got so tired of not having a job, I started my own business. For the most part it has worked out well. How's the rules/laws for that in your neck of the woods?
  • superbozo said on May 01, 2009....
    Hi Nick and Java. The cost of licencing makes it a bit hard to commit to as a single parent. I am actually running a handyman add next week in the local paper. Jobs less than $2000 mean you do not need to be licenced with the Building Services Authority. It's the cost of licencing and insurance to go it alone that makes it hard. It's not impossible but I need a little more money in the bank before I go for it. If it wasn't for the financial problems my ex caused me I would have done it by now. It is something for the future. I like the idea of being my own boss.
  • HollyGoLightly said on May 02, 2009....
    sooo, my *SuperSex(y)Agent*  is quite the BADASS as well???  mmmm..chills, baby...lol
     
    i love someone who stands upon their principles!! these days, sadly, it's a rare thing to find those who aren't afraid to stand up for what's right...although i've never been a carpenter (but have been a carpenter's wife...lol), i've resolved a couple of similar situations the same as you did...makes ya' feel soooo good huh?
     
    *CUDOS*  to you *ssa*~~
    (besides ANYBODY that messes with the *~*littleprincess*~*  deserves something where the sun don't shine!!!)  ;)
     
    *~*Holly*~*
  • javadewd said on May 03, 2009....
    Ah, quite the barrier of entry...
  • Lucytorial said on May 03, 2009....
    I'd definitely go to the council, it brings up images of colapsed balconies in my mind.... what a dip shit.  I'm glad you stood up for yourself... damn hide to say that kind of shit to a contractor.... I'd charge him extra... hope ya got paid.
  • superbozo said on May 03, 2009....
    Hi Holly, I've got quite a cute ass actually, nothing bad about it ;P
    When he mentioned my princess I was really wanted to stick my size 10 steel caps where the sun don't shine. Still I went home feeling good about myself and thats all that matters.
     
    Hi Java, There would have been no barrier LMAO
     
    Hi Lucy, I got my money no probs there. I had a good chat with the council too. So hopefully they will sort him out.
  • HollyGoLightly said on May 03, 2009....
    *oh i knew that you did*   lol...
     
    (btw) did you call her *~*the little princess*~* before...or did i make that up awhile back???  :)
  • superbozo said on May 03, 2009....
    I seem to call her something different everytime I talk about her on soulcast. From using her real name to minibozo to princess. I'm not sure really :)

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