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It happened a couple of weeks ago. At the moment, I didn't know what I was doing, but now I know the consequences of my acts. I told two of my friends about this place. I even gave them my blog address for them to read. And that's when I sealed my fate.

It happens that I've been carrying a big burden. I need to get it off my chest, let it breathe, see the light... It's a secret (not so secret) that's killing me. I've lived with it for some months now. I know that writing about issues can clear them out and help solve them. But I told them about my blog. And now I can't write about it here. I'm left with not a place to vent.

WHERE WILL I VENT?

Of course, there's the chance they've forgotten about it already. I can only hope so, since I can't really know. I can't risk, there's too much at stake. God, the thing is EATING me up. Don't know what I will do, really.

It's desperating.


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  • Danj3ris said on Sep 03, 2006....
    I would change your name.

    Perhaps break a rule and create a "vent" blog, as well as this blog.

    Just throwing that out to you, don't know if SoulCast is trying hard to discourage multiple names.
  • itsmyturn said on Sep 03, 2006....
    I agree, I wouldnt leave this blog just because 2 of your buddies might read it. I would use another name...

    I know what you mean though, I have been very selective about who I tell because this is my "bare my soul" blog outlet. My myspace page is the PG stuff that isnt too personal and I wouldnt mine other people knowing...
  • Zayda said on Sep 03, 2006....
    Create a second user name and write posts there that you don't feel like you can write here.
  • Jenna said on Sep 03, 2006....
    I will never tell anyone about this place. My dear friend mamie told me about soulcast about two days after she discovered it. I am comfortable with her here because she knows everything about me and loves me unconditionally. And vice versa....I suggest what others have. Change your name and maybe downplay it with those you have told.

    Then write away dear one...something is obviously on your mind! Good luck!
  • Jenna said on Sep 03, 2006....
    I will never tell anyone about this place. My dear friend mamie told me about soulcast about two days after she discovered it. I am comfortable with her here because she knows everything about me and loves me unconditionally. And vice versa....I suggest what others have. Change your name and maybe downplay it with those you have told.

    Then write away dear one...something is obviously on your mind! Good luck!
  • sigroid75 said on Sep 03, 2006....
    i did write about it earlier. see my blog:
    http://www.soulcast.com/post/show/18818/I-will-NEVER-ADVERTISE-Soulcast%21

    i write a lot of things about my boyfriend, so i wouldnt
    want people knowing him personally. he's a great guy,
    but sometimes when i'm emotional i write not-so-good
    things about our relationship...

    at least u learned a blogging lesson...hahaha
  • ayinkurie said on Sep 04, 2006....
    Don't worry just get another blog for a diary purposes. Yes, like a diary. Will you ask others to read your diary. Definitely NOPE. So, let others read but don't tell anyone its yours. And make sure they have AdSense too.
  • ocean said on Sep 04, 2006....
    I agree is good idea creat another blog.
  • secretlife said on Sep 04, 2006....
    Take another ID.
    That way you can still have a 'private' place if you need it.
  • silverwhisper said on Sep 04, 2006....
    never tell people your blog address if you aren't comfortable w/ them knowing everything you write.

    i have a few friends from another of my online haunts i will never forward this to.

    do as zayda and secrelife suggested. make no connection b/n this ID and the new one: don't subscribe to one another, and for pity's sake, don't comment on one another.

    ed
  • missb said on Sep 04, 2006....
    I agree with them all. You can either create another name in SC or create a new blog in some other.

    I found this other blog mentioned in SC called Senserely

    It's another blog and also has Adsense. You can have 2 blogs and Senserely claims that it can increase your Adsense earnings. Just a suggestion...

    Cheers!
  • purple said on Sep 04, 2006....
    I hope Alienated reads this thread, for here are many more good reasons why multiple user names are a good idea. Even if you don't tell anyone you blog on soulcast there is always the chance they will land on your blog via a google search or a friend of a friend. Even typing in keywords (tags) in the soulcast window may inadvertantly link all your blogs together.
    If you truly have dark secrets to bear it helps to write them on a paper and either throw it into a fire or bury it or rip it up and cast it out to sea.
  • justop26 said on Sep 05, 2006....
    Thank you all for your replies. I still don't know what I'll do, but don't worry, maybe I overreacted, but it's not such a "dark" secret. It's not that bad, but still I would want to get it off my chest.

    I don't think I may be creating a new blog, not here, at least, because of all the fuss with multiple accounts and stuff. Thanks, missb, for linking that site, I'll check it out.
  • okelay said on Sep 05, 2006....
    you have to be careful about who you give your blog adress to.
    i don't think i could give it to many people that i know from RL, cause i wouldnt feel at all comfortable and then the whole point of having a blog is lost.

    so i don't. i tell only my closest friends, who i don't care if they read it or not. i don't think they do actually, but whatever.

    if you want/have to talk about RL and you don't want them to know, change the scenery/details/names, etc.

    or get a new account.

    or forget about it and pray that they don't read it
  • justop26 said on Sep 06, 2006....
    okelay: I think, if I'm ever brave enough to write about it, I'll "forget about it and pray they don't read it" :P

    Changing the scenery/details/names would have no effect whatsoever, we're all in the same class. They'll know about it. Basically my main concern is that I write about it and they tell other people (someone in particular).

    Kind of trust problems, huh?
  • okelay said on Sep 06, 2006....
    yeah it seems that way
    but it'd be the same way if i had that problem

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