• uniquely-ironic said on Apr 15, 2009....

  Don't even pick up the phone any more.  He's clearly just using you for company so that he doesn't have to be lonely.  That's not what you need or want. 
   
  I know it's hard to move on, but honey you need to.  Just don't look back and start making plans for YOUR future.

• CWAZYGIRL said on Apr 15, 2009....

  HOLY CRAP.
   

• sextmessages said on Apr 15, 2009....

  Yeah, listen to uniquely-ironic.  She's right.
  
  
  It's easy to say, not easy to do...  But, it's clear that he doesn't appreciate you being there for him when he's supposedly depressed and yet he wants to go out with his buddies.  Idiot. 
  
  
  Don't let him break your heart again.  

• Hegemone said on Apr 15, 2009....

  First, nice to meet you.  Now, Uni's right, he's obviously just using you to fill in the blanks when its convenient for him.  Don't let him take advantage of you.  Keep all that sort of stuff in mind and move on, full force, full steam.  You'll be happier and healthier for it and I'm sure you'll find another guy in time who is much more worth your time and emotion.  Take some time to concentrate on YOU, build yourself up and live your life for you.

• D6fer said on Apr 15, 2009....

  I'll give you three words of wisdom.....it's an old saying....but it works....I am a guy....so listen up.......HARD TO GET! .......motor off and leave this loser in your wake....live by those three words....be hard to get and you will be hard to let go.....there are millions of guys out there that you could love more than this guy....someday soon you will run into any number of them.....just be open to it, but don't be easy.....smile, flirt, and then pull back a bit.

• LayaMaria said on Apr 15, 2009....

  Awww. *hugs*
  
  Stay. Away. From. Him.
  
  When a guy acts like that, you're just setting yourself up for a lot of heartache when you keep hanging around. So keep your distance. Every time you think of him or want to see him, make a conscious effort to stop doing it. If he does this again, don't let him get to you. Get mad if you have to, just to stop yourself from running over to him. Tell yourself that if things were reversed he probably wouldn't do the same thing... then turn around and walk in the opposite direction. Deliberately. In time, you won't feel so bad or so guilty.
  

• Edriisxe said on Apr 17, 2009....

  D6 is right. So is Uni and everyone else.
   
  He's definately not worth it. And for what D6 said, that is a good strategy. I'm a woman and I do this all the time. I will flirt almost endlessly, but know where to stop. It's definately not hard finding your boundaries through this. Play hard to get, the nice guys find this attractive. But don't go running to every guy that treats you right, PLEASE! Be his friend, see how he acts under other conditions. If you rush into another guy just because you wanna get over this one faster, it's only going to cause more problems within the relationship and most definately youself. Don't ever go crawling to a guy, it's not your job. They come to you, sweetie. I got this from a movie, "A man is the head of the household, but the woman is the neck." It's the same for relationships. =]

• dreamloser said on Apr 17, 2009....

  "And I can to the neck any way I like" from My BIG FAT GREEK WEDDING! :)

• D6fer said on Apr 17, 2009....

  edriisxe.......thanks for the backup! ;)

• Edriisxe said on Apr 19, 2009....

  Dreamloser...YES! Great movie. =D
   
  And no problem D6. You made a great point and helped me make mine.

• Misty_Eyed said on Apr 21, 2009....

  but if you just play "hard to get," doesn't that mean you'll just end up with guys who are all about the chase and not about the after-party (for lack of a better way to put it)?
  
  
  not sure i agree, but I'm a woman, so what do I know?  ; )

• Edriisxe said on Apr 21, 2009....

  Misty eyed, You have a point. It just all goes into knowing what you're doing. Playing hard to get, I think, is just being yourself, but also flirting with the guys you like without really letting them know that you like them. Just be yourself, flirt a little, show 'em that your interested, and wait for them to make the move onto your next step.
   
  I just think that a girl should just be herself. Don't let the looks and personality of a cute guy turn you into a sort of stalker. If you try to impress him, he is going to fall in love with your actor, not you. Yeah, it is sort of contradicting from what I was saying before, but this is the easier way to move on and learn. =]

• saranglovesnature said on Jun 23, 2009....

  you seem to have choose the wrong guy. well you are something special i have read all your blogs and just think how bold are you , wanna be friends

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