• pusscat said on Apr 13, 2009....

  Always remember that it's not about getting there as fast as we can, it is the journery itself that is full of fun, fear, love, tears, laughter and learning.  It does take time to trust completely and I think our Sirs would be surprised if we acted any other way.  "He said that He would do everything He can to make loving Him always worth it to me". . that is such a beautiful thing to say :-)
  
  One day will come and you won't even notice at first you've reached there, that you will be totally emotionally vulnerable to him and he will feel far from cheated ;)
  

• Daddy's_soul said on Apr 14, 2009....

  you're right, pc...if i would take myself off of this time table of when i'm supposed to feel and do things, i would enjoy my journey a lot more. thanks for your kind words of encouragement :~)

• Girlygirl said on Apr 15, 2009....

  I understand what you mean about being in love with your Sir. I fell in love with my Sir, but he had told me before that he did not want someone who would fall in love with him. I fell in love of course, it was impossible not too. But i refused to admit it. Apparently though, my eyes gave me away, he guessed, and when I finally did admit it he told me he was in love with me too. Turns out we fell in love on the same day, or at least we had both realized it on the same day, but were to afraid to say anything.

  I"m so happy for you and your Sir. And PC is right, the vulnerablity takes time, my Sir had to work hard to gain my trust becuase he was working against years of distruct...but it will come ....welcome to SoulCast.

• Daddy's_soul said on Apr 16, 2009....

  thanks for commenting gg...
   
  it was impossible for me not to fall in love with Him. i think i knew i would from the very beginning...i just didn't think it would happen so fast. He is the perfect Sir for me...He gives me just the right amount of discipline and nuturance. He is stern but not too strict, and always fair.
   
  thank you so much for the welcome :~)

• Devious_Babydoll said on Apr 20, 2009....

  I'm so happy that you found the perfect Sir for you. It's one of the best feelings that one can experience. Congratulations

• subo9 said on Jun 26, 2009....

  Sorry to be late coming to this post, but it rang such bells for me I had to say something. I know exactly how you feel. I've fallen so hard so quickly (only in the last few weeks) for my Sir I can't believe it. The hard fact that it's a LDR and He's married is difficult and something I think I will struggle with, but He loves me and when he tells me He 'has me in His hands' I just melt. As a new slave starting out I hope I can be one he'll be proud of. We are both lucky though, aren't we?

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