Im amazed at some of the things that come second nature to me and dont for others.
I was hanging out with two girlfriends of mine. Melissa and Wendy. Melissa was talking about her new checking account. She closed her other one because they were assholes. She was all excited about her pretty new blue debit card, its way cooler than her old ugly orange one.
We got into a discussion about finances and overdrafts and bank problems etc...
I was mostly just listening to them complain. I mean, my finances are pretty much in check. I keep close tabs on all that shit, i mean, its my money we are talking about. I do not taking money issues lightly. That money is my lively hood and i know where every cent of it goes at all times. No if ands or buts about it.
Wendy was complaining about her overdrafts she gets, melissa was echoing her. I asked why they get so many overdrafts...they had no idea...
"I dont know, the banks are just stupid"...
This baffled me...the banks are stupid? They dont just pass out overdraft fees for fun...
So i asked "well, do you guys keep track of your money at all?"
they said "what do you mean?"
Melissa is my age and wendy is 27 fucking years old....just so ya know...
I asked "Do you balance your check book?"
they said "Check book?"
"Ya, your register for your check book?"
They laughed at me and said "We dont write checks, why would we have a register?"
OMG!!!
First thing i asked "You dont have a check book? How do you pay your bills?"
Turns out, they send cash or go directly to the offices to pay with cash or their debit card....
They keep absolutly no track of their finances.
They pretty much just deposit a pay check, spend all their money however they see fit and then get pissed off when the bank gives them overdrafts for spending money they dont have...
I was just in awe...I didnt want to alienate them, or make them feel stupid but i definitly made it clear that they should really balance there accounts and keep a budget...
They looked at me like i was a psycho path bc i balance my checkbook every single night and have a clear cut budget that I stick to.
I put so much into my checking and savings account twice a month.
I pay bills twice a month. I make copies of all my checks and keep track of the check number and date it was paid and i put it in its corresponding folder.
When I use my debit card I save all the reciepts and I put it all in my register.
I mark the reciept "accounted" with the date on it and put it in my reciepts folder.
The money that is left after paying bills is divied up down to the last penny for Gas, Groceries, Savings, Misc, Cigarettes, restaurants....There is never much for misc...
And believe it or not, when i get my monthly statement, I sit down and i fucking compare their records to my own...
I told them all of this and I swear to God they were laughing like I was a freak of nature making stupid comments like:
"hehe, wow, you actually save the reciepts from your debit card? omg..."
"wow, ha, you must have a lot of time on your hands"
The entire time i was thinking how absolutly retarded they both were...but instead all i said was:
"Well, it takes about 5 minutes a day to do what I do, and guess what? I dont get over draft fees and i have great credit, so...hahaha"...
I was just in shock...I thought everyone did what i do...everyone!
I mean, i get pissed off when i recieve a check at the office and people dont write in their memo area. But i thought everyone balanced their checkbook and saved reciepts...
Am I crazy???
Do you guys do what i do? Or are you like Wendy and Melissa?



