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This week my friend Tony started his chemo for his cancer again. He was off of it for a while because he decided to try an alternative approach. It did not work. Anyway, I tried to call him last night and did not answer the phone so I left a message to give me a call when he had a chance. As I hung the phone, I thought of something which made me well, upset. 
 
When I was around 11 years old, I was diagnosed with scoliosis, which is curvature of the spine. I have a double curve. Part of the treatments required me to a many, many radiographs done. I remember as I was growing up learning in my science classes that radiation can cause some mutation in genes which could lead to cancer.  Recently I realized that my past problems with my lymph nodes ( I had one removed during a hernia surgery and one removed from my right underarm) and now I wonder how come I didn't develop the same problem Tony did. I feel that what happened to Tony is unfair and it sucks. He is most caring person I have ever met. All I can do is pray and hope this round of chemo works.
 
P.S.- I did get a hold of Tony tonight, and he feels like crap. But I am glad he answered the phone.


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  • rupert7 said on Apr 04, 2009....
    princess, can kinda relate on both counts. My mother in law suffers from Micosis (probably spelt it wrong) It is a blood disorder which affects the "T" cells. She has had chemo and radiation and goodness knows what other treatments for many years. Recently a small cancer was found on her back and it was removed. However a few weeks later a maglignant tumor was found in the lymph gland under her arm. They are messing her around a lot with it and nothing has been done yet.It is getting bigger and bigger! The earliest she can see an oncologist is 14th of this month. She is 80 years old and we are worried about the outcome of this.

    When my niece Kat, was 15 she underwent surgury to try and correct her scoliosis. She became know as the patient from hell! lol But it was major surgury for her,they removed two ribs and inserted steel rods to straighten her spine. It was pretty successful and she looks great now, her boobs ended up different sizes so she had to have cosmetic surgury there too. She is 24 now and has no real problems,some back ache now and then but she leads a pretty normal life and is getting married next year.

    As for me, I have multiple sclerosis,but not too bad,I am still able to walk but am on an invalid pension. Nice to meet you. Oh yes, I hope your friend Tony will be OK
  • secretlife said on Apr 05, 2009....
    nobody understands why things happen the way they do. 
    personally i spend about 50% of my life asking "why?"  life isn't fair, and there aren't any answers to be found.  all you can do is be thankful you're not sick, and help Tony get thru his ordeal.
  • pusscat said on Apr 05, 2009....
    I'm glad you managed to speak with him even though he felt like shit.  It just helps us sometimes to know they were at least able to answer.

    So many things in life aren't fair but so many of these things make us who we are. I question it many times.  My sister who is only 44 had breast cancer 3 years ago and had a mastectomy then chemo and radiation.  She got the all clear 2 years ago.  Now she is having chemo again for secondary (terminal) cancer in her lungs and liver.  I am the one who tried drugs when I was young.  I'm the one who smokes 18 a day and I'm the one who has drunk alcohol since I was 15!  She has never touched any of them!  What's fair in that eh?!  These things though give us strength that we often didn't know we had.  Sounds like Tony sure has a good friend in you.  Just come along here when you feel the need for some support though - we'll always be here with an ear for you.
  • princessbitch65 said on Apr 06, 2009....

    Rupert- wow,thank you for sharing your family with me. Tell your cousin, don't go too crazy! I ended up having the surgery too. I am just glad I am still flexible; unfortunately my aches are coming from getting older,

     Secret- you would think after 40 years I would get it; that things are going to be unfair but in my heart I just can't help to wonder why him?

    Pusscat,- I drank like a fish in college and did I lot of stupid stuff that probably could of killed me. It's just weird that some things come back bite some in the ass while some don't. I'm still waiting for the other shoe to drop so to speak.

  • rupert7 said on Apr 06, 2009....
    Kat had the surgery 9 years ago......she is a natural drama queen! Age...Ah! it catches us all in the end! Gotta tell ya, I wish I was 40 again! ~smile~ 
  • silver_phoenix said on Apr 08, 2009....
    princess~ I hope Tony's chemo works for him! It sounds like he's got a good friend in you. :-D

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