Okay so I'm working through slowly... Trust is gonna be an issue for a while but I'm trying and so is the hubby.... Just when things were starting to get a bit more back to normal we get a call from his Mother.....

 

First of all let me say that she is NOT my favorite person.... She is very self-centered and yet claims to be a "good christian", yeah I know, go figure huh?

 

She called to tell my husband that his brother took a fall at work on Friday... He fell about 12 feet onto a concrete floor.... The only thing that saved him from death or paralasis was that he hit his head on the way down and was knocked out, the fact that he was limp when he hit the floor is the only thing that saved him... As it is he has a fractured vertebrae and a severe concussion... (sorry for the spelling, I haven't had much sleep lol)

 

As his Mother will not take off work to care for him and neither will his girlfriend who btw wouldn't even wake him up every two hours that first night, risking him going into a coma, etc.... No one there will take care of him and as he lives on the third floor of his building and his idiot girlfriend can't drive, my hubby naturally wanted to go home and take care of him for a bit and I fully understood... Financially though it was questionable... We worked it out though and I drove him to the bus station last night to catch the last bus out...

 

As my Mom, who normally helps out alot with our kids, is away in Florida it leaves only me here with our five kids... No biggie I can handle it but I have to say last night was a bitch! lol Seven years is a long time and I haven't spent a night away from him in all that time.... Even when fighting I always knew he was here.. You other women know what I mean! lol

 

Only slept about an hour all night and of course my kids were up and going strong by 7 am lol... Hubby was torn about going all things considered but, our situation will keep... His brother needs him and so he is where he needs to be... The break may be good for us too all things considered but right now its hell....

 

Hope all is well in your worlds.......