Because of the work relationship, I have known him for 67 years. His cajaput faces the wind, eye of star of straight eyebrows slanting upwards and outwards, is a beautiful and bright buddy; He has amiable, extremely popular disposition, is a loyal to one's friends good friend. Whenever the unit has things, come at someone's call; Outside the work, it is more and more too to associate, has become the friend gradually, has held him and handled affairs to rest assured.  
One, I ask him make Old Man of the Moon as one good friend, he acts as a go-between many times, kindly help secure the success of wholeheartedly, the other side slightly hesitates, unexpectedly not forgive without listening, his is considerate and warmhearted, make me move endlessly. And, everybody goes on a tour in a group, drive several dozen kilometers, chat about all the way, the scene of playing comes clearly into view, by Jinhai Lake and pedlar's bargaining, sing the vigorous dance with wild joy in the Karaoka room, have a chat in the dead of night all over the countrily, sparkling discourse, interest is to heart's content and right.  
Having also taken a lot of photos that time, it's a pity that there is not a photo which sees him among them, because he makes the camera lens be facing toward others all the time.  
I wonder how he suffers the last day in the life. I hope he is not lonely, but someone supports, I imagine, he has a friend in non- general meaning, the justice gallbladder of chivalrous liver as him, the bone tender heart of the same iron. I believe he swears in front of him, are loyal and faithful to the friend's great trust, keep one's mouth shut.  
If he really has such a close friend, I wish to extend the lofty compliments to that righteous man far away.  
Until today, I return the heart and store illusion, if only all rumors are not true, he will suddenly come back one day, cooperates together, chat together, outing together. His business card is still in my cards folder, just that would have thoroughly cooked BP number on the heart, I have already been that one hundred can not be echoed.  
It is the heaven and earth with him to be even true, I do not think I should be sad either, my good brother, he does not originally hope the friends are sad and pityful, just leave away quietly, he does not want to interfere with everybody's life.  
For his last wish, we must treasure the life further than ever, live attentively.  
"Japan sets water is quiet, loose arises for you. Did not give from then on far, the green hill reply the feeling emptily. "  
Commemorate good friend Mr. Chen Ming with this document sincerely  
Postscript: This essay was probably written 67 years ago, originally thought it had already drawn the full stop for the friend's story. Have never expected the thing has separated for many years, when the past event has faded from memory gradually, this story making the person sentimental has had final results: In the morning of one summer of 2006, the first telephone received after going to work was about him unexpectedly - -His osseous remains are found in the compound basement where he lives, the conclusion of the public security bureau is committing suicide.  
Easy to imagine, eight years ago, in torment, seek survival despair to have door illness, he choose, commit suicide, until death ends all trouble.  
Good friend before death in he, we can for whom him make finally, to let he burial brings peace to the deceased.  
On October 19, 2006, several friends make an appointment, hold a simple and unadorned funeral in the imperial tomb cemetery of Germany of Changping of Beijing for him, wish his soul to rest in peace in the green hill pine and cypress.  
It passes like this, the persons who grow are improper. The friend's story tells us, love the life, the ones that can't bear the life are light!    
Know elders after a little while  Always come to hand over to the younger member of a family (1)    
I grow up among a family which is filling the democratic atmosphere, childhood is spent with grand parents' campus of Anhui. Guests came to the family at that time, so long as did not discuss the public affair, children needn't avoid. The most rare one is, the adult speaks, the child can interrupt, this has formed a lot of trouble that what happened latter on day of mine. So as a child, listened to the adult talking and becoming a subject of mine. In middle period of the sixties, I came back to parents in Beijing's side, the great change all took place in national affairs, family matters, the often calm dark cloud on the face of parents and visitor, it is fewer and fewer to suitable for topics that I audit, the external world begins to attract my attention.  
After living independently, I jump the quene first, worked later, colleagues got to know, a lot of already thirty or forty years old, some ages exceed my more than one time. I am sent to the second affiliated hospital of Xi'an medical college at that time and received a training at the age of 19, after the medical rudimentary knowledge of one year is trained. Because the university closes down, has not had a medical college and protected the graduate of the school for several years in succession, hospital gap between generations, receive a training of student become first fresh combatants that can't ignore.  
I am there, get to know a batch of very influential elders in the field of local clinical medicine, and keep the frequent contacts with them during some time. They go to move towards an important lesson of the society for me by one's own deep learning raising and abundant experience.  
Professor Cai Cheng is a famous thoracic surgery expert, the native in Fufeng of Shaanxi, large, physical and stalwart, the appearance is quite handsome, look a bit like the Europeans. He speaks the standard mandarin, speaks genuine area within the Pass dialect while chatting in formal occasion. After I transfer wheel to surgery, regard him as the big friend that can trust quickly, have brought Fufeng an accent in even words of Shaanxi of my theory.  
At that time, the originally strict management system of the hospital was destroyed, doctors and nurses' responsibility was not divided, the expert is worth the night shift of Line one too. Cai settle, on night shift whenever, we go, take midnight snack together, two institute delicious in won ton of dining room. At ordinary times, Cai Cheng known as gourmet often invites us to " eat out " too Make the life better. The most famous one is near the hospital "  The dining room of the toilet "  ,Small eating-house not big of a shop front. It is said that was a toilet originally, filled out the latrine pit later, built the dining room. Listening to this phase of history, all of us are unwilling to go there to have a meal. But Cai Cheng says, we study medicine, " imports and exports " The same, why to is it so clear to divide? Does if the dish is delicious. Does not still mention, " dining room of the toilet " Meal pretty good. Later, so long as Professor Cai went, we enjoyed all cooked food and were checked by him. Receiving a training after coming back, I eat fatly and many, this is outlying words.  
Cai settles medical skill consummately, his diagnosis and treating the respect attainments in surgical disease of ambition such as the heart and lungs, vertical diaphragm is very deep, it is one of the persons who lay a foundation of extracorporal circulatory system cardiac surgery of medical university of Xi'an, the operation is extremely beautiful. It is an important activity of ours to see the operation at that time, the bubble after night shift that I am often on the bottoms were in the operating room, outside the chest, outside the brain, general outside, dept. of orthopedics, one connect a tableland watch. And see his operation enjoyed most. I have a colleague, find chest pathological change at the time of the physical examination, I look for Cai Cheng holding the X-ray photograph, he judges once seeing: "Centre lung cancer, in early days, need to perform the operation in time. "  Pathology report prove diagnosis that settle Cai, recover gradually by the operation patient, living returning the health so far.