I am such a magnet for assholes. Maybe that's why I am such a bitch.
Just yesterday, a colleague instructed me to help her with a task. Take note, she instructed me. And that wasn't even part of my job description! If she was my boss, I won't have second thoughts. But she isn't. That really pissed me off.
She told me she was going to send the file thru IM. She didn't even wait for me to answer. She was trying to send me the file, but I declined it. I left my desk and went outside for a smoke. When I returned to my workplace, there was a message from her that said, "Nevermind. It's done." Duh! As if I owe her anything.
When I walked into the john this morning, she looked at me first before stepping out. No wonder everybody seems to hate her. She's so unprofessional! She only knows how to manipulate people, that's how she gets her job done. Well, sorry for her. She messed with the wrong girl.
Anyway, sorry for ranting.
durianshortcake posted on Aug 30, 2006
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pinkjellybeans said on Sep 02, 2006....
I don't think you're a bitch, I think you're within your right to be annoyed at someone TELLING you to help her and not even asking nicely. I think you reacted well: maybe she'll learn one day that she can't walk all over people? Though, actually, people like that rarely do ever learn...
Go, you! :o)
PinkJellyBeas
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Susmaryosep said on Sep 04, 2006....
How can that make you a bitch? One suggestion. next time you walk out, dont smoke, take a Durian... :-))))))))
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Susmaryosep said on Sep 04, 2006....
Oh Hi PJB,
Am I still blocked from your blog? :-) Take care luv!
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durianshortcake said on Sep 04, 2006....
PJB, I think you're right. She will never ever learn. Her colleagues have been having the same sentiments that I do for seven years now. She hasn't changed a bit. BTW, just yesterday, I read a magazine article about asking favors. One tip they gave: don't ask a favor from someone not in your circle. I almost fell off my chair! I really want to send her a copy! Thanks again, PJB for keeping me sane. :)
Sus, I'm trying to quit smoking again. For the nth time. I hope I'd be successful. ;D
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happykk said on Sep 04, 2006....
i've felt that way once myself...no you're not a bitch
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Susmaryosep said on Sep 04, 2006....
Eat time you feel like smoking, take a walk, or do something pleasant. I was a chain smoker for 15 years and I quit cold turkey. I found a reason to do it... and that's it. And don't use your stress as a reason tfor you to smoke!
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durianshortcake said on Sep 04, 2006....
Thanks happykk! It's just that I'm not as nice as the other people I know. :-/
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durianshortcake said on Sep 04, 2006....
Sus, I was actually able to stop smoking for a good 2 and a half years. I think I need to let go of my smoking buddies for me to be able to quit altogether. Thanks for the tips, btw!
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habibti said on Sep 04, 2006....
hmmm...if what you did makes you a bitch...and i've done worst...
cripes!
then, that makes me what? or who?
pure evil manifestation?!? tsk.
=P
anyway...yeah. i've got one of those "irritating officemates" myself. mine masks as the "goody-two-shoes" though. i'm at the brink of choking her blue.
=)
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Susmaryosep said on Sep 04, 2006....
habibti,
You a Geminian too? Seems to be many here........ :-))
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habibti said on Sep 06, 2006....
hey, Susmaryosep!
yup...am a Gemini here.
^_^
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Susmaryosep said on Sep 06, 2006....
They are my favourite people!
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RollingC said on Sep 09, 2006....
:) no you're not a bitch. But try not to smoke....x-chain smoker for more than 20 years...quit once for a couple of years and started again. But finally quit for good...it's been less than a year and I feel the difference in not smoking.
good health to you.... :)
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