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I have been talking to some men online, and yes I have met one and I do like him. But I hav also been talking to this other guy and to begin with i liked him.  UNTIL...

He told me I have no life because I live at home with my parents and that I am pretty much stupid for doing it despite the fact that I am working on paying off student loans and saving some money to be able to fall back on.  I would think a guy would like that  a girl is thinking of trying tp pay off debt before getting married...but whatever..

Then he started asking me personal questions and I gave somewhat answers cause they were incredibly personal questions and I am not about to give my life story to some guy that I haven't even met ya know.   Well dude proceeds to tell me that I am being too mysterious for him.  And I needed to open up more and since I wasn't being completely open then I was hiding an aspect of myself or that I am not dealing with certain issues in my life.  Man doesn't even know me and he is trying to phsycoanalyze me.

Fucker googled me, and went to my myspace page and told me I was still too mysterious for him.  Thinking my stories dealing with entrapment was talking about myself.  Just because I will not tell him what I consider to be going through hell.  Like really. I was so pissed off.  Not worth my time...



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  • secretlife said on Mar 16, 2009....
    not worth your time........exactly.
    don't waste another second thinking about him.
    he'lll think you mysteriously disappeared.
    good riddance!
  • wishyouwerehere said on Mar 16, 2009....
    Not all men, Rmuxa - hold out a little hope, will ya? ;)
     
    This guy, though - the one who wanted you to reveal your entire life's story?  Yeah, he's stupid.  I like SL's recommendation for a mysterious disappearance on your part.  Not worth another ounce of your time or energy.
     
     
  • queenparanoia said on Mar 16, 2009....
    this guy is an ass. not worth your time...
  • MsStar39 said on Mar 16, 2009....
    He sounds like an idiot, be careful of anyone trying to find out everything about you on the internet.
  • rmuxagirl said on Mar 17, 2009....

    Exactlyu MsStar.  I think it is safer o not do that, then when he said he googled me thats when i just thought CREEPER!

    Where are the good guys hiding lol. I do have another date with the guy I went out with last week.  He has potential.

    Wishy, I know not all men are stupid i just cant seem to find the smart ones who know when they have a good woman.

  • wishyouwerehere said on Mar 17, 2009....
    "Wishy, I know not all men are stupid i just cant seem to find the smart ones who know when they have a good woman."
     
    Still searching myself, but I refuse to give up hope that there are some who are out there!
  • fragglesrock said on Mar 17, 2009....
    glad to hear that you kept your 'wall' up with that nut job! hang in there, they can't all be bad eggs....can they? i'm sure hoping not.
  • rmuxagirl said on Mar 17, 2009....

    wishy I am sure we both will find us a handsome smart one who will hang on to us ;)

    Fraggle I hope they aren't all bad eggs, I tend to keep my wall up with everyone.  It is hard for me to let ppl in sometimes oh well.

  • blaster said on Mar 17, 2009....
    Rmuxa,
    So you come across a creep and you try to generalise that experience to all men?
    I guess i could see why you might do that, but it's a little bit unfair, and a bad experience with this dude, maybe you don't want to carry it through to other men you meet?
     
    But then, what's the dude's trip?
    Sounds to me like he's digging dirt on you or trying get a handle so he can hold it over you. Some insecure control freak, and plenty of men for one reason or another don't like not being in control, but he sounds really condescending with it if he expects you to open up to such forward and obvious enquiries.
    Like whatever dude, tell me about yourself huh? But he's unlikely to be frank and earnest in that regard anyway.
     
    well done for seeing him for what he is, and giving him the distance.
    Good luck with the rest of male kind.
  • dyingman said on Mar 17, 2009....
    Psycho.
    Good move.

    Let's get the double standard straight, okay?

    Girl living with parents:  Okay.  Even cute and wholesome.
    Boy living with parents:  Loser.

    Funny he hadn't heard....


  • rmuxagirl said on Mar 18, 2009....

    dying, yea he thought it was weird that I wanted to live at home with my parents for a while in my area, it is pretty normal for the girls to stay at home til we get married.  That way we save and pay off some of our bills.

     

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