• Swingman said on Mar 14, 2009....

  dude I just got onto Soulcast and the first thing I saw was this.  I have been a swinger for a while and enjoy it very much.  My favorite thing is watching my wife go to town on another woman.  Wow!

• baldguy said on Mar 14, 2009....

  We have been swinging for about 8 years or what we like to call it "in the lifestyle."  We are a couple that has been married for over 30 years, 1st marriage for both of us.  The friends that we have made in the lifestyle are the best friends we have.  They are the most caring nonjudgemental friend that we have. Most are on their 1st marriages also and all have been married 25+ years.  My wife does not consider herself to be bi, but she does have one female friend and when they get together its hard to seperate them.  Its not just about sex, a lot of times when we get together with our friends it doesn't end up a sex feast.  When me do have sex with other people, we like to have seperate rooms.  As far watching my wife get boned by someone else, I really don't think about it, at the end of the night we both know who we are going home with.  Hopes this helps.

• MFreak said on Mar 15, 2009....

  Swingman/baldguy-Very interesting, do you find jealously rears its ugly head?  One of my greatest fears about my wife with another woman is what if switches sides?  I don't care if she subs for the other side by I don't want her switiching teams. :>

• Swingman said on Mar 15, 2009....

  We have made some incredible friends in the lifestyle.  I think that is one of the greatest things about swinging is the people you meet and become very close to.

• baldguy said on Mar 15, 2009....

  MFreak - When we first got into the lifestyle there was a little jealously but that was a long time ago.  We are both very comfortable with who we are and what we are doing; before we play with another couple, we both have to agree to it, if either one of us doesn't like one or both of the other couple, then we stay away from them.  As far as switching sides, I guess if it happens, it was going to happen anyway; I don't know;
   
  cheers

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