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well...apparently the tickets we bought were "wrong"
 
now...i admit.....i should have checked them more closely. 
 
anyway, spring break technically......at least in all the school calendar stuff.....starts the 30th.
 
the kids have the two days of the weekend off before then.
anyway. ......i thought my ex and i had talked about it.....but apparently there was some kind of misunderstanding. I told my dad to get the tickets any time between the afternoon of the 27th through the 30th.  with empahsis on the 28th or 29th.
 
dad ended up getting the tickets for the evening of the 30th. their flight gets into denver at 10:41pm.
now...when dad told me about it....he didn't mention the "PM" part.
i stupidly ASSUMED that it was "AM" .....oops...which i had wished it was on the weekend instead of monday...but ex and i had talked about it being the 30th if it absolutely had to be.
 
so 10:41 am on the last day in our plans was unfortuante.....but not the end of the world.
 
well.....tonight i get a call from ex. *frown*
"what the hell is this about the flight on monday night!?"
"if you don't change these tickets i'm taking you to court for contempt!"
 
GRRRRR
of course.....the tickets are so cheap that they can't be refunded. we may be able to work something out with the airline....special circumstances....but even if we CAN get the tickets refunded......a flight on a weekend will cost about twice as much or more.
i'm not really sure what dad was thinking when he booked a flight that doesn't get in till almost 3 hours past the kids bedtime......plus an hour drive time home on their end. and that's IF the flight is on time.
 
the court order states that any traveling must be finished by 7pm.
 
it pisses me off that i can understand why my ex is pissed off.
it puts me in a really awkward position that i can see his point.....but dad's buying the tickets.....so.......GRRRRR.
 
i just don't know how to "fix" this.
i feel rather sick.


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 14, 2009....

    they may not be refundable but are you able to reschedule the travel with a fee?  usually it's like $50 or so to do that.  I'm using the same type tickets for my trip and I did check to see that should I need to reschedule for any reason that I could.  I just cannot get a refund.  Check into that.

    It's frustrating jumping through the hoops.  I'm doing the same to a smaller scale and it's still frustrating when dickwad drops Sweetie off late in the evening on our fridays and I darn well know he could have been here sooner. 

  • Hegemone said on Mar 14, 2009....
    Wow, that really had to be difficult to deal with.  I hope by this time you've gotten the issue resolved with as little added stress and money as possible!
  • Fallyn said on Mar 14, 2009....
    UI the problem is that even with the rescheduling fee......weekend tickets are twice the price....they'd still charge us the difference. Dad's been working on it....so...i don't know yet. *frown*
     
    hege. it's just irritating.
    ex has NO patience for mistakes of any kind. every time something like this happens it just reminds me how damn happy i am that he's in another state and i don't have to deal with the perfectionism on a daily basis. i can NEVER live up to his expectations and i'm so completely thrilled that i don't have to.
  • queenparanoia said on Mar 15, 2009....
    {{{HUG}}}
  • Fallyn said on Mar 15, 2009....
    thankyou queenie! stuff worked out okay.
    i'm not feeling so apprehensive about it.
    got the tickets changed....only to earlier that day....couldn't get tickets for the weekend.
    oh well.
     
    he's not thrilled but he's living with it.
  • fritz307 said on May 11, 2009....
    well...that's life..hehe check this out, brokenheartedblog.com.cool site..

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