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Okay, how do I blog this without sounding like a trollop?  Bah! Never mind.  Who cares what other people think!
 
So after slogging through a swampland full of frogs, I think I've found someone with Prince potential.  Yup, I'm talking about my date last night.  Now don't get all excited, we didn't run off to Vegas or anything, but I had this incredibly nice time.
 
After work I hoofed it home post haste and got all tarted up.  During our conversation we discussed what to wear since it really does matter if you're not exactly sure what you'll be doing on said date.  I decided to go with the red heels again for good luck.  Since we had decided against a hike (it was an evening date) I also decided to go with a skirt.  So, properly decked out I drove over to meet him at the Stanford University Mall.  (yes, they have their own mall)
 
We had exchanged cell #s, so when I got there I called him.  We had agreed to meet in front of one of the stores.  He showed up and looked a little stunned.  (I'm already feeling great because this is a GOOD sign)  He told me that my pictures didn't do me justice.  What a charmer! LOL  He had actually stepped into the said store and bought a picture frame. (likes shopping, another good sign)  After putting it into his car (mid sized SUV) we walked inside the mall to a really cute little pastry shop.
 
We had agreed to cheesecake and coffee.  He asked me if I wanted cheesecake or something else, and after a quick look I decided that the raspberry custard tart.  We got our pastries and coffee and said in the breezeway at little bistro tables and talked.  He let me eat the strawberries off the top of his cheesecake since he didn't like them.  I did NOT offer to share my raspberries.  He does some IT/database sort of job that's a little too complicated for me to understand, we talked a little about family, etc.  After finishing the pastries, which were nearly microscopic, he decided that we should have one more pastry.  I think he was just trying to prolong the conversation since I had crossed my legs and his eyebrows twitched.
 
After pastry we took a leisurely stroll around the mall window shopping and talking some more.  He has a wicked sense of humor and is a good sport about me poking fun at him.  I decided to let him kiss me.  Yummy!  Then, in a fit of nearly adolescent silliness, we walked back to his car and (I know, some of you think I shouldn't get into a strangers car) did a little old fashioned making out!  Tee he he he  We both agreed it was juvenile and somehow that was half the fun of it.
 
We were parked in a semi-busy parking lot by a busy mall.  We both were giggling when the mall security truck drove by and shined it's lights on our vehicle.  We were imagining the potentially embarrassing conversation should the mall security be bold enough to tap on the window.
 
"Yes officer, we're both over 21 and we DO both have places of our own.  No, we're not trying to emotionally scar small children who might get an eyefull.  We'll move along now."
 
Talk about taking you back!  I haven't done this since I was in college!  At some point we stopped since both of us have to work today.  He has to get up really really early so I had pity on him and let him go home.  He walked me back to my car and made sure I was safely on my way before going back to his car.
 
He texted me a good night and the mean bastard texted me a good morning at 5 am this morning.  I let him know in no uncertain terms (texted back) that I was still sleeping!  But, how sweet of him to not make out and run away. :)  I think I'm going to see this one again.


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  • secretlife said on Mar 06, 2009....

    leave it to those IT guys to make a girl swoon!

    ...yeah, they might be a little nerdy, but what's nerdy next to good-kisser?

     

     

  • Hegemone said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Ooooh!  How exciting Uni!  This guy sounds like somebody special to really check out and get to know!  I hope he doesn't turn into a dud.  You definitely deserve somebody fun like him!  Uni & IT Guy sittin' in an SUV, K I S S I N G!  Lol.
  • mobil said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Uni this dating has become a profession haha.  No I am glad you found a Prince.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....

    SL - I seem to really have a thing for IT guys.  Weird.

    Hege - LOL I'm interested myself to see where this goes.

    mobil - It's a little exhausting actually.  But it does keep me occupied ;)

  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Mar 06, 2009....

    *big toothy grin*

    . . .does my heart good to read you like this, uni <3 you look great in a dressy :D

    paper ~



  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    PBW - it was so freeing to go on this date with absolutely no expectations and still have a lot of fun.
  • HollyGoLightly said on Mar 06, 2009....
    *uniquely*~ you are sooooo my soul-sister!!  LOL
     
    I fully believe in the live every moment as though it were your last and
    dance as though nobody is watching theory of life...
     
    life is for the living...squeeze every drop out of it that you can girlfriend!!
    This post makes me happy for you & puts a smile on my face... :)
     
    ~*~Holly~*~
  • CayenneMan said on Mar 06, 2009....
      That's funny but, you have got to be kidding me ? 
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Holly - I've tried living seriously, but ...... that sucked! ;)
     
    CM - why? you think I should behave more responsibly?  That's no fun!
  • CayenneMan said on Mar 06, 2009....
        That's not it at all  You seem to attract toads and your worth much more then that. Ain't nothing I can do on my end at least not right now. I gave up  . . . . . . . . .  for lent.
  • MsStar39 said on Mar 06, 2009....
    He does sound like he has Prince qualities.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    CM - I don't think this guy is a toad.  At worst, he's a very fun diversion.
     
    MsStar - Yes, I'm impressed with his intelligence, sense of humor, manners and attentiveness.  We'll see if this is a show or if it's really him with time.
  • SlickNick said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Uni that is so awesome! Live it up girl! 
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Slick - I sure feel like I'm living it up!  I was grinning silly last night on the way home.
  • one_wired_kitty said on Mar 06, 2009....
    AwWwWw ... how sweet!!!! Does he have a brother?
  • wishyouwerehere said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Yayyyy for Uni!  Live it up girl!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    OWK - two in fact, but they're both married :(
     
    wishy - I figure I owe it to myself ;)
  • cuppajava said on Mar 06, 2009....
    glad to hear that you may have found Mr Right - i hope that he treats you well.....and doesnt get you up at 5am anymore!
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 06, 2009....
    all I can think to say is "here we go here we go here we go...... here we go here weeeee goooo here we gooooooooo  oow
     
    glad you had a good time
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    cuppa - I'm not ready to christen him Mr. Right, and yes, we addressed that disturbing my sleep thing
     
    Lu - I know.  I'm trying to be a little bit more skeptical this time around. 
  • Lucytorial said on Mar 06, 2009....
    you never know Uni, could turn out to be great, I hope it does.
  • CreativeWoman said on Mar 06, 2009....
    It is great you have found a possible prince.  I was just dreaming about ballroom dancing with Prince Charming on my blog earlier.  I'm glad your prince is reality.

    CW
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Lu - you never know ......
     
    CW - yes! I saw that and also dream about such things!  I wonder if this frog would learn to dance with me?
  • fragglesrock said on Mar 06, 2009....

    you are no trollop! you are a flat out huss!...tee hee! i read this earlier uni, i've just been so busy today, no time to comment, been staring at dreamy you tube video for a while now ;-)  i hope that sometime soon you get the full backseat tour!!!!bwaahahahahahahahah

    i need to go home now.

  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    frags - in time I hope I get the whole back seat tour too!  yes, a huss .....
  • CreativeWoman said on Mar 06, 2009....
    Uni,
    If he has the Prince vibe, he'll be a magnificent dancer.  :-)

    CW
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    CW - well, he is latin, so I think genetically I may also have an advantage ;)
  • bluegum said on Mar 06, 2009....
    wolves in sheeps clothing,plane ole wolves,there all out there ,and you found a possible prince .and you need some BAD KITTY time.trollop never.blue.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    blue - I need a prince who enjoys a bad kitty I guess.  I try to avoid wolves.
  • hotaka said on Mar 06, 2009....
    I've missed a few weeks of your dating adventures but I can see Victor bit the dust and from the last I read that's a good thing. This one here sounds good and I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. As you know, it takes time to sort the real princes from the fakes (just finished reading Princess and the Pea with some of my students last week) so let's hope this guy can feel the pea under 20 matresses so to speak and doesn't end up peeing on the matress.
    So to speak.
  • wombat said on Mar 06, 2009....
    A nice date and cheesecake!  I am green.....ha.  (and I miss getting all dolled (or tarted) up for a date!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....

    hotaka - I've missed your witty take on my dating adventures.  Yes Victor decided that he really didn't want to date.  Oh well.  I hope this one is a little more enthusiastic and real.

    wombie - sugar and "sugar" in one evening.  Does life get any better?

  • purple said on Mar 06, 2009....
    It's nice to read something fun, flirty and light hearted.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 06, 2009....
    purple - it wasn't half bad doing it either!
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Mar 06, 2009....
    LOL.  Making out in a car... 

    Reminds me of a run-in I had with a cop when I was 20.  I was working as a waiter at a chain restaurant and my gf at the time worked there as well.  One night, we closed the restaurant together and lingered in the parking lot just a little too long. 

    The flashlight shone directly on my bare naked bottom up in the air and if it wasn't for the window being fogged up, the cop probably could have given me a rectal exam right there on the spot.  :D

    He was a good sport about it and left us alone to continue on with our business (though not enough of a good sport to leave us alone...  I guess he was just doing his job, though).  The interruption added much heat to the passion at the time but I must admit, the paranoia kinda got to me, too. 

    Thanks for the memories.  Hope he turns out to be a winner and not a wiener.  :)
  • rmuxagirl said on Mar 06, 2009....

    WOOHOO sdo glad you found someone with prince potential.  Sounds like an awesome date.

  • uniquely-ironic said on Mar 07, 2009....
    Grape - *giggles* yeah there was a moment when that deer in a spotlight thing was going on.
     
    rmux - he was a lot of fun.  I think I'm seeing him again tomorrow. (or is that today since its 1 in the morning)
  • rupert7 said on Mar 07, 2009....
    It feels good to go back to your teen years don't it. I am glad you had a nice time and wish you many more.

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