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About a year ago today, my Grandpa died from lukemia.  It has been a sad day for me and I have been having a lot on my mind the past few days.  A year ago I had one of the greatest friends you could possibly imagine.  She was always there for me when I needed her, put me first above guys, and was just a great friend.  What could possibly have gone wrong right? Wrong...
 
I was so upset about my Grandpa's death last year I wanted out of a relationship with a guy I hardly had any feelings for.  Rude, maybe, but what was I suppose to do, keep leading him on?  I finally eneded the relationship thinking we could stay friends.  A week went by and I got a phone call from my best friend at the time.  "He wants nothing to do with you, he hates you!"
"What are you talking about??  I havent done anything? Is it cause I broke his heart?"
"Yeah, but you broke his heart in a big way!"
 
The phone clicked..
 
I had no idea what was going on until his parents called mine and asked them to come over.  His parents showed mine that I have been messaging a guy I didnt even know on myspace telling him that I love him and so on.  Bascially they were saying I was cheating on my ex.
 
WOAH----Rewind---I would never cheat on anyone!!
 
I remember my parents coming home telling them what was going on and I honestly didnt know what to tell them, because I had no clue!
 
A few months before this happened I remember handing my password for myspace to my Best friend to check my emails for me sincce I was out of town.  I also remember the guy that I supposly was talking to was a friend of hers that she talked to all the time on her myspace page...Could she really have done this?  Trying to start a horrible rumor about me cheating, expecially on the internet?
 
I called her to comfront her and she lied about everything!  Knowing her past, she has lied about a lot of things, but why would she want to do something so hurtful.  Our friendship ended.  Of course my eex would believe her someone he just met over his ex. 
 
Now it has been a year, and two days ago my EX best friend added me to be her friend on myspace.  She messaged me saying she missed me a whole lot and would like to fix up the patches.  I had nothing to say to her...but then she tells me she doesnt know yet if she does becuase if my ex found out, he would hate her forever.  Who knows, I guess time will tell..
 
 
Please readers, its not much, you know drama when you see it.  What should I do.  Forgive and forget or just not talk to her??
 
 
 


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  • simplyconfused said on Mar 07, 2009....
    That is definitely a confusing situation.
    Personally after hearing that she's not sure if she wants to fix things up because if your ex found out he would hate her forever, it's playing off as she cares about what your ex thinks more about getting your friendship back.
    But I would talk to her about it, and at least get closure. Try figure out what happened maybe? Perhaps you two can be friends again, but who knows. 
    So I'm going to say try and talk to her about it, and in the very least try to get some closure.  
    Though, in the end your going to have to do what YOU feel is right. What your gut is telling you. 
    Good luck! :)
  • pinkdiamonds11 said on Mar 07, 2009....
    simplyconfused- thank you very much for your advice! i have a new blog and I will tell you what she said
  • simplyconfused said on Mar 07, 2009....
    Your welcome, I hope I helped at least a little! I would feel HORRIBLE if my advice wasn't really anything that helped at all.
    Okay, I really want to see how this goes for you!
    I hope whatever happens, is what makes you happy, and what you want! :)

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