I think a chauvanistic attitude like that in a man reveals a very small penis.
No really.
I have a theory to back this up. I'm happy around gay men. I do care about what I wear. I condition. I value the opinions of women and cherish my girlfriend, and get on very well with the potential mother in law.
I think when men are excessively macho, its forced, its a statement that says 'look at me world, for I have a large penis' but I think its an insecurity thing.
Or they're just Goddamm backward hicks that still think black people arn't as smart as us white folk and such.
I think a lot of women don't 'fall' for these pathetic men. This is going to sound arrogant, but my last g/f that I was with for over a week, her boyfriend before me is shorter and weighs less than her, but thinks he's god's gift. Rides a clapped out honda hornet and claims its fast, she told me he's 'tattooed up' but really he's just got a couple of scribbles, shit I have more ink in one of my tattoos than he does in his whole body. Plus he's depressed, clingy, earns less than me, is quite chubby, no self confidence.....
She dumped me for him. We were in a club, and she introduced us and said 'yeah I'm back with him now', and my confident responce was to laugh. I went home with someone thinner, better off, and a damm site better in bed.
Looking at my friends, the ALL seem to be doing this, getting with the most pathetic man possible, Mr Macho, the kinda guy that will eat as much steak as possible to show his butch feralness when he has arms like twigs. I looked at my cousin, who is good looking, wealthy and intellegant, going out with a total sap. Its not because "he's a nice guy", cause he isn't.
No, I think the reason why so many young women do this is because these men are easy to CONTROL. I'm not a pathetic wanker. If you piss me off repeatedly, you will see the back of me. If you dump me after a couple of weeks, I won't be hurt I'll just keep on going. Oh, and I do have my OWN life, too, and female friends.
So I think women are emtionally threatened by this, but if you have some sap like my ex went for, they'll always come crawling back.
Do you know what I mean?
Sorry for the post-hijac spiritualmom!