Okay, my name is Uni and I'm a date-aholic.
So even though last weekend I met a great sexy guy who's only flaw is that "want to have a kid" thing, I somehow feel the need to continue the search. I mean, what if sexy eyes really insists on having kids and I have to boot him to the curb. (after much use of course!)
So I've kept chatting online I've meet more seemingly nice men. You talk, you even flirt a little and at some point it's meet or break it off. This can be a process that takes days or even weeks. But one potential chatter seemed to have potential. So I set up a meet last night.
He kept insisting that he was shy so meeting in public was hard for him. I kept insisting that it wasn't going to happen any other way and in the end he relented. I mean, WTF? Do I look stupid enough to put myself in potential danger?
So we met at a park near the bayshore hiking trail just after work. I thought a short walk would be a great place to look each other over and talk. I'd even get a little exersize in. He pulled up and I am going to be completely honest with you all ..... I wasn't the least bit attracted to him physically. But, I'm not shallow, so I thought "oh well" and got out to meet him.
We discussed where to walk and started out. He is not that much taller than me, so I thought I'd be easily able to keep up with him, and I also believe when you take a walk with someone you try to match their pace. Apparently someone didn't tell him that. I was having to lengthen my stride, which is already pretty long, to just barely keep up with him. It was as if he was racing to get the walk "over with".
I tried to start a few small conversations. I got answers but no real feedback. I'm annoyed at this point. We got to the top of the knoll and the view of the bay really is stunning. But it seemed lost on him. So we headed back almost immediately. On the way down he actually made a grab for my ass!! I know now that this is as far as this date is going.
When we get back to the cars he turns to me as if I'm supposed to know what is next. Well, I do, but it's not what he thinks. I ask if he's had dinner but he seems to think this date is going to end up in a hotel ordering in food!!!! NOT! I have no idea where that even came from.
I agree to sit in his car for a minute to talk to him. I don't believe in public humiliation and this guy has it coming to him. I tell him I'm not comfortable with his idea that on our first face to face meeting that he would even bring up a hotel. He agrees and then ...... reaches out and grabs my boob! I was shocked! I was most annoyed that he had cold hands. Or maybe that's my minds way of dealing with his aggressiveness without breaking his fingers for the insult.
I figure subtle is lost on this clown. His feelings are not going to be spared. He just lost that right! So I flat out tell him, sorry, there's no attraction here and I'm going home now. He again leans forward as if to plant a kiss on my cheek. I'll never know why I actually thought he could behave himself, but he turned it into a full on tongue in mouth kiss and make a grab for the other boob!!! Holy mother of Jesus! What a fucktard!
I couldn't get out of the car fast enough. I was PISSED!!! I almost kicked his car. Instead I got into mine and drove 30 miles to Pacifica to buy fish and chips. Using the curves along the coast in the road to take out my aggressions. Even called sexy eyes to see if he might join me for dinner, but nada. Probably for the best anyhow.
When will I ever learn?!! What seems like a genuinely nice not leacherous guy online turned into grabzilla. Next time someone makes an unwanted grab I'm going to fucking break a bone. No more Ms. Nice Gal!
