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Actually I spent the day at my mom's house, but before I went to my mom's house, I was given a BIG surprise.

Friday.
As I stated in my last post, I did brought home some work and was doing it until the wee hours of Friday morning. I was in the zone of developing a web site that I kind of neglected my boyfriend and as a distraction he just played video games while stealing a kiss every now and then. After he went left for his house, I continued to work until three in the morning.

When I woke up around 10 in the morning (we have flexible hours in the office btw), my period became stronger and I had cramps. Determined to finish my work, I exercised, ate brunch, and prepared for work. At first I disregarded the pain, but after a couple of hours, I couldn't concentrate anymore so I decided to go home a bit earlier than planned, rest, and continue work when I'm okay. When I arrived home, I was surprised that my period became heavy and that my sides were hurting. So much for Valentines' eve. I decided to sleep on it but somehow I couldn't, and JC kept checking on me every now and then.

Convinced that rest did me no good, I decided to drink Ibuprofen knowing that it would stop the pain, and sometimes stopping the mentrual flow itself. Again, I started working. My boyfriend kept texting me every now and then just to check if I was still in pain.

Wee Hours of Saturday Morning. 12am-1am.
JC just got off work and he asked me not to sleep yet. I said okay since I am working on a project and I figured he didn't want to feel alone on Valentines since most of the people on the bus are lovey dovey. Anywho, JC and I already had a pre-Valentines date the day before, so its okay. So even while working, we kept checking in on each other and he wanted to keep texting because he said he didn't want to sleep on the bus and miss his stop, which happened to him, more often than not. He then told me that he was halfway already, and I thought it was his signal that he would text me when he arrived at his home.

Twenty minutes later, he was calling me. A bit puzzled for the late morning call {I was still working at that ungodly hour at my apartment}, at first I thought he was just calling to hear my voice on Valentine's day and to be the first one to greet me. But then, he told me that he was in front of my apartment compound and that I should come down and see him. So I figured he was probably there to give me a flower because he kept looking at flowers when we were at the mall.

When I came down, there were some people having a drinking session, and one commented that there was somebody looking for me. When I went out the compound, JC was there with his pals in the car and he said that he had something to give me. Wait a second, I thought he was on his way home. Anyway, I was surprised when he got the ginormous bouquet of roses in the car of his pal. And his friends kept smiling at us.

He said that he went all the way to my house just to give me the flowers at 1 in the morning and that the reason that he kept texting is to keep me awake so that he can deliver the flowers personally. He said I should go back to the apartment and rest and that he only wanted to give them and greet me a Happy Valentines Day.

Needless to say, I am very very very touched by all of this. Honestly, I wasn't expecting anything at all. I am the most unromantic girly girl you'll ever know. It wasn't because of the flowers, but because of the effort that he put in it. He came straight from work, asked the help of his friends, drove all the way in the wee hours of the morning, without any of my knowledge. You see, I don't expect any present at all, and I didn't expect to see him on the day itself for I am such a busy body. That was probably why he was asking what time I was leaving for my mom's house a gazillion times and that he was looking at a gazillion roses a couple of days before. Yes, I've been given a gazillion flowers in the past, but JC's efforts were there, and to think that he was there professing his love in front of his guy pals. By the way, it was a big bouquet of roses, which I think is expensive. Oh well, why does this guy keep try to make me fall deeper and deeper every time? LOL.

When I came back at my apartment, I was booted out of the zone. I just kept staring at the flowers and keep asking myself, how did I not see this coming? I mean, not an inch at all. Why wasn't I even expecting anything? How did I missed the signs that he was planning something. Oh well, its called a surprise. And yes, I don't have a gift for him because it was all really unexpected. Oh well.

Anyway, Monday, we will see each other again. :) What to give as a gift.... hmmmm. Oh well, I'm just happy. =)

Cheers,
Jackie

P.S. I'm here typing at mom's house because we are visiting my sister and my cute nephew tomorrow (It is her birthday).



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  • pusscat said on Feb 14, 2009....
    Aaw - that is just the sweetest thing!

    It's like you say, it's not so much the what someone gets you for Valentines, or any other special day, but the effort and time that they have put into it.

    No wonder you keep falling deeper lol!
  • dazed_and_confused said on Feb 14, 2009....
    pusscat. Yes, indeed it was one of the sweetest things that a guy could ever do for me. =)

    I was really surprised that he even thought about buying flowers and carrying them with his friends. You know being guys and all, they prefer the macho image. I myself would drop dead if someone I know would see me carrying flowers after they were given to me. Yes, I'm such a guy. =)

    I think our relationship is balanced in a way. I'm the more masculine one, the more rational, the less romantic. He on the other hand does the girly part like introduce me to all his friends, family, and does the surprising and other romantic stuff like this. =) Awwww.

    By the way, he never fails to tell me how much he loves me everyday. {{Blush blush}}. I on the other hand only say it when the feeling is very very very very strong. ((Yes that seldom)).

    Cheers,
    Jackie
  • queenparanoia said on Feb 14, 2009....
    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet!!!!!!!!

    kilig ako!!!!!

    you must have a gift on monday!!!! and make it a grand one!!! lol...

    happy valentines day.... ;-)
  • Lucytorial said on Feb 14, 2009....
    talk about spoiled... what a romantic... he really loves you, to do that in front of a mate... god... that would just tickle my fancy so much I'd melt.  lucky girl...
  • dazed_and_confused said on Feb 14, 2009....
    queenparanoia. yes, that is indeed one sweet gesture, not to mention a hopelessly romantic one. :) Sobrang kinikilig pa rin ako pag naaalala ko yung gesture na yun.

    As for a gift, I'm thinking of giving him a pair of slippers that he could use around my apartment because when he visits, he has a habit of removing his sneakers and walking around in socks, though I can't remember what size he wears. He told me what size before, I think it's either an 8 or 10. I really can't remember, what a gf! LOL. Probably a size 10 because he is 5'8" and and size-8 shoe wouldn't carry his frame.

    Lucytorial. Yes, he indeed is a romantic. =) I don't want to get spoiled though, I mean I don't want to set up my expectations. LOL. Yes, he really does love me, enough to shed the macho image in front of his pals.

    Cheers,
    Jackie

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