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I have the most incredible fiance ever.   Women out there just done know what they are missin : )  My complaints are just so insignificant in the grande scheme of things.  I mean really.  No one is puurrrrfect.  But my Phil, wow, he comes so damn close.  Im sooo spoiled with love and affection. 
 
Im so appreciative of everything he does for me no matter how small.  Our life is full of nothing but kisses, hugs, warm ebraces, holding hands, and adoring stares. 
 
He does laundry bc he can tell laundry doesnt make me happy...
 
He cooks for me, mostly because hes really picky and ill eat anything, but he still cooks for me...
 
He empties the dishwasher....
 
He picks up after himself...
 
He lays out socks for me in the morning bc i usually give myself an aneurism trying to find a matching pair myself ...
 
He starts fires to keep me warm...
 
He doesnt complain when i steal the covers...
 
He opens doors for me...
 
Just the other day he picked me up and put me in the pickup so i didnt have to walk in the mud...
 
He brings me lunch everyday and we eat it together...
 
He lets me pick what we watch on TV...
 
He hates snowball in the house but turns the other way when i sneak him in, hours later saying something like "hey, howd this naughty kitty get inside" before he kicks him back out...
 
He brings firewood in everyday and doesnt ever ask me to help him...
 
He reads my mind and without me asking brings me something to drink when he comes back from the kitchen...
 
He rubs my feet whenever they are in reach...
 
He rubs my back whenever he finds himself behind me...
 
If he goes grocery shopping alone he always brings me a chocolate...
 
He surprises me with flowers, when hes not in trouble...
 
He has gone to everysingle Doctor appointment during this pregnancy...
 
He rubs lotion on me in places i can no longer reach...
 
He cuddles with me at night in bed...
 
He truly is amazing, i never knew men like him existed.  And here i am, the luckiest lady on the planet!  I get to marry this man.  Hes mine, forever...
 
Sure, hes a hoarder than insists on having things his way, and sex addict...but if those are my only two complaints...wow, i can totally deal with that...
 
Hes going to be such a good daddy hes so full of love and passion.  Hes got such a great heart and amazing personality.  He makes me laugh, he spoils me, i seriously cannot say enough good things about him. 

I dont think ill ever get used to be treated so well...
 
C'mon, what woman on this planet besides me gets told how amazingly gorgeous she is everysingle day more than once? 
 
I get to wake up with him everymorning...sure its usually to him trying to put his cock up my butt while im sleeping.  It gets really old...but its still him : )  He giggles and laughs an i pull him out from between my cheeks and we hug and tell eachother how much we love eachother.  He comments on how im the only woman in the world that can look stunning with drool crusted on my cheek : ) 
 
Valentine's day is creeping closer and closer and ive never had any boyfriend give it more than a few moments thought maybe the day before.  Usually my past boyfriends apologize for their unthoughtfullness on valentines day.  Making up excuses and not doing anything...Ive never felt special on valentines day before...
 
Plus valentines day was mine and David's anniversary...Phil doesnt know that and im not gonna tell him.  But when i broke up with David i was worried valentines day would be ruined forever.  Now that im with phil, wow, David just doesnt exist and Valentines day remains untainted...
 
I was slightly concerned Phil had nothing planned and im not the kinda girl to get all upset about him not making the stars align on valentines day.  I wasnt even sure if he knew it was coming up : ) 
 
So I asked him a few days ago "So babe, Valentines day is coming up, did you have anything planned, err umm...should we talk about it?"
-I was just testing the waters to see what he might have up his sleeve or if i needed to facilitate some things a bit-
 
He said "ive got reservations already, its all taken care of, no worries"...
 
OH MY GOSH!!!
 
NO WAY!!!
 
Wow...how lucky am i...
 
He didnt tell me what weve got planned but i bet its gonna be good : ) 


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Feb 06, 2009....
    this is sweet.
  • diabolicdame said on Feb 06, 2009....
    Awww.. so sweet!  :-)
  • woman said on Feb 06, 2009....
    Lucky girl.
  • starchini said on Feb 06, 2009....

    I know it ladies, i try to refrain from the mushy stuff...I keep waiting for him to snap out of his charming perfect ways.  I keep waiting for things to get "comfortable".  I keep waiting for that "spark" to fade.  I keep waiting for it to morph into a "normal" relationship full of bickering and resentment with the occasional bout of makeup sex...Nope, i dont think itll come.  I dont think Phil will ever stop treating me the way that he does.  I think im gonna be stuck being treated like a princess for the rest of my life.  Believe me, its a burden im totally willing to bear : ) 

    I cant stress enough- none of you settle for anything less!  Like i said i didnt think these men existed, i wasnt even looking for one.  I was looking for someone i can tolerate that doesnt piss me off and treats me "ok" and then Phil fell in my lap and exceeded all of my low expectations. 

    THEY EXIST!!!  GOOD HONEST SWEET LOVING MEN ARE OUT THERE!  DONT GIVE UP!!! 

    If i can find one in a town of 248 people...im sure that anyone anywhere else sure as heck can : ) 

  • diabolicdame said on Feb 06, 2009....
    Oh hon.. dont worry.. I know they exist.. I've got my own..   :-)
  • Hegemone said on Feb 06, 2009....
    Star ... *huffs* ... I'm jealous.  Can Phil become a "Good Honest Sweet Guy" professor and teach some other guys, lol?  Valentine's Day is just another holiday in this house ... and it gets old making all the plans myself to see them all go unappreciated ... and then there's the rest of the year ... when I see my husband do some of the things you mentioned, of his own free will (without my asking him to), I know something is up.  Usually he wants sex, if not that then money, and if not either of those, he's done something wrong or said something stupid (and usually I find out AFTER he is doing or has done the nice things).  I've been thinking more and more lately how nice it would be to have a guy who treated me wonderfully, complemented me on a somewhat regular basis, you know, made me feel special from time to time.  *Sigh*  Guess I'll have to keep dreaming for a while, or keep guiding my husband in that direction even though it takes him forever to catch on to things. 

    Awesome for you though Star!  It sounds like things are working out just right in your life and I'm so happy for you.  That's the kind of thing I like to read, for sure.  Stick with it, you guys will be great together!
  • queenparanoia said on Feb 07, 2009....
    it's nice that youre seeing that positive side of him star... ;-)

    oooohhhh and blog about your valentines day!!! ;-)
  • moonriver said on Feb 07, 2009....
    moon fu-tzu say, can i borrow him next weekend?
    yeah yeah i know you two have plans for a really torrid valentine's day.
    but you see, i have these three basketfuls of laundry and...

  • fallenangel12 said on Feb 07, 2009....
    i was smiling widely while reading this.
    i can totally, totally relate.
    be happy forever starchini!!!
  • starchini said on Feb 09, 2009....

    Thats right diabolic...how silly of me : ) 

    Oh hege, thanks so much it really is a blessing.  I sure do hope things change for you.  You deserve a foot rub just as much as i do : )

    lol thank queenie.  I will, i cant wait! 

    oh moon...i used to let laundry go till i was naked with nothing to wear...now its not a problem : )  If you pay for his plane ticket ill send him on down : P  lol...

    thanks fallen..im sorta surprised how many women can relate.   Ive never met a woman that was a tenth as pleased as i am...I guess i was the only one that didnt get the memo about these men existing : )  I sure am glad there are more of ya out there in my boat : ) 

     

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