Love is not my topic of interest.But as reading and researching is my hobby I meet a lot of articles concerned with love.I don’t ignore them.Its that to hate sumthing u need to have a basic knowledge of that specific thing.Say for example to hate a hedgehog u need to know wut it really is.And it’s the knowledge that makes u decide wthr to hate it or love it.So heres sumthing that mite be of ur interest in order to enhance ur love life.I don’t remember where I found it but feels it may be a help 4 u ll so enjoy…..

It starts like this…..
Sure, it’s a wonderful feeling to be swept up in a wave of love and giddiness, but that early rush of affection can lead some of us to do some pretty odd things. Things like thinking we’re in love after one or two dates... things like making summer vacation plans with a person we just met... and things like rearranging our whole schedule in case the object of our affection should be available for a cappuccino.Try to avoid the following mistakes .


#1: Believing that falling head-over-heels in love at first sight is best.
How to fix it: Flash-bang-wow chemistry is fun, but true love evolves over time—not through fleeting glances or over a few cocktails during one enchanted evening. “I have a client who thinks that he has to have this immediate passionate connection with someone or he won’t go on a second date, which keeps him from possibly finding a good match,”. She suggests that if you’re still at least a little interested in the person, go out again. No one’s at their most natural state on a first date anyway, so you both benefit from another opportunity to chat. “Love at first sight is a myth, and it’s important to give different kinds of people a chance,” says Firestone. Being open to new experiences can be an important step on the path to finding a partner.

#2: Having sex early on in a dating relationship.
How to fix it: “If you sleep with someone right away, it can be a problem later, because you’ve bypassed the phase of ‘Tell me more about yourself’ and ‘What do you like to do on Sundays?.“It feels weird to ruin comfort levels by asking such basic questions after you've gotten physically close.” Puhn suggests that the next time you feel the urge for one night of fun, remind yourself that you can get unlimited nights of fun if you wait—without skipping any key getting-to-know-you steps. Set new timelines for yourself: Only after ten dates, a month, ten months, when you know you’re boyfriend-girlfriend—wutever marks a slow-it-down improvement for you. And making love or sex is the curiosity for most couples so if u make it too early ,u get pretty fed up of ur lover very soon.

#3: Falling for someone who’s taken.
How to fix it: “Spoken-for people can be very attractive, because they’re often confident enough to flirt and you may be craving affection,” You may get the attention you desire in the moment, but u also get the heartache of someone who is not free to be fully urs.” No matter how much you say you don’t “need” a boyfriend or girlfriend who’s 100% there for you, the fact is, you do miss out when you settle for a partial partner. When you meet sumone ,In the first glance u mite not know he or she is already occupied or married or have got kids. You deserve someone who puts you first, so start auditioning mates who have long-term potential instead of devoting your time to one who’s proven he or she doesn’t. Try to find out whtr the person is single (meaning not only unmarried ,but who doesn’t have a girlfrnd or boyfrnd)because the sooner you know, the easier for you to get rid of.And inspite of knowing the person is already occupied and u want to maintain ur relationship lots and lots problems would arise and u mite be blamed for destroying multiple relationships where he or she is involved.So don’t get cursed from others while chasing ur love.

#4: Not letting people know you’re seriously looking.
How to fix it: When you’re tired of being single, appealing to your friends for help can seem like an act of desperation. “Blind dates can be scary and uncomfortable, but it's a lot more uncomfortable to sit at home on a Friday night feeling depressed and lonely,” says a damsel. In fact, asking for introductions makes you feel proactive in your search for a mate, and it dispels any shame you might have about being solo. You’ll feel more positive and happy about dating, an attitude that will be attractive to others when you do schedule a date. So make a fresh start by telling your friends that you'd like to be set up. Even if they don’t know anyone right for you, once you’ve mentioned that you’re looking, you’re bound to score yourself more invites to parties, girls’/guys’ nights out, and other social events where you could meet, well, anyone.

#5: Ignoring red flags (even if the person waving them is otherwise amazing).
How to fix it: Have you ever found yourself thinking, “He’s great, even if he does drink waaaay too much,” or “She’s sexy; so what if she works for me?” When you’re smitten, it’s easy to overlook issues that threaten the very basis of a future serious relationship, but when you do, you’re sabotaging your shot at said serious relationship. “Every time you date someone with an issue you have to work to ignore, you’re settling,” says Paries. A better option? When red flags pop up, talk about them. Ask questions. Honestly decide if the baggage at hand is a deal-breaker for what you want long-term, and make the hard (but smart) choice to stop dating if that is the case. If someone isn’t ready for a relationship, has substance abuse issues, or is not a good prospect in another vital way, you are wasting your time if you pursue this person romantically. “If you can, keep the friendship,” says Paries. “You never know when a friend of a friend might be perfect for you.” And that’s because when it comes to the game of love, setting your priorities — and sticking with them — can pay off in ways you never expected.

Ps:don’t appreciate me for this article as the tips are not from me(bt I have edited sum as they are not suitable for our culture and I have depicted my own views in sum areas.. ..Wutever u can comment how u feel abt them.And we may discuss the Pros and Cons ..dho ..ciao dems