• secretlife said on Feb 01, 2009....

  i'm of the opinion that it's the man's loss-
  who wants a man who is so shallow?

• dyingman said on Feb 01, 2009....

  All the women who cheated on me were beautiful.
  
  A)  More men offer temptation.
  B)  A higher caliber (read "beefcake") are making the offers.
  C)  They are aware of their "value" to their current beau.
  
  They cheat because they can.
  If you're not one of these mutant broads that make most women feel bad about themselves, I wouldn't suggest taking on their approach to relationships.  5 years will be a marathon compared with the couplings you'll be getting.
  
  As for what guy you're seeking out...
  What are you willing to give up?
  
  1)  Nice guy
  2)  Nice Car, House
  3)  Nice Looks
  
  Pick two out of three.  As sad as men are who look for the devoted, beautiful, smart girlfriend/wife, women who lament the lack of nice guys have an astonishing lack of prgamatism.
  
  Nice guys who have money aren't hard to find.  They're doing overtime at the computer lab and go home to play on their computers.  They ask you out for coffee, but look at their shoes while they do it and their flood pants make you laugh out loud.
  
  Nice guys who look good might have spent most of their lives mooning around with their girlfriends and not paying any attention to their futures.  Broke, but sweet, you'll be pulling a lot of the weight in teh relationship and foolish women will resent it and leave in disgust.
  
  Nice looks with nice cars and homes are so sought after that there's really no need to settle down with lil' ol' YOU.  (And probably not lil' ol' anyone for that matter.)  They treat their ladies poorly and the money and sex replace them the moment they go.  Want to share this exciting life or luxury?  It'll cost ya and it won't last long.
  
  What's it going to be?
  What flaws can you accept?
  
  
  

• Hegemone said on Feb 01, 2009....

  Well, I've never heard of having a NICE problem before, but it makes sense.  Maybe it's that the guys need to feel like they've got a bit of a challenge, even though sometimes they're too dumb to realize that they're in way over their heads.  Also, perhaps while things are going so great with you they feel that it's not enough of a challenge?  There's no chase, there's no feeling that they get to take care of you (deep down inside, every guy needs to feel needed sometimes more than emotionally ... it gives them something to puff their feathers about).  Then again, maybe this is just one more illustration of why women are viewed as the smarter gender ... they're not quite as evolved, but maybe some day.  I hope you find that nice guy though, that doesn't mind living in a nice house, with no drama.

• namyogrl said on Feb 01, 2009....

  Secret - in theory I agree with you, but I sure hate huggin my pillow night after night.
   
  Dying - Wow I don't know what to say, are you saying it's a lost cause? why do I have to settle for 2 out of 3? and so what if a guy is nerdy. and if Im not lil anymore? huh? If I take what you have to say I should become a size need a steak and sleep around with every tom dick and hairy and then I will be desirable? no thanks, Ill stick to huggin my pillow
   
  Hege - I think you may be on to something, guys are so used to working so hard, I make life too easy for them. I am going to examine this more closely if I should ever happen to get involved with a man again.

• AJTRIP said on Feb 10, 2009....

  You know the same could be said with women. However, it's not about being "nice". I haven't seen you so don't take this as an insult but it's about how good looking you are. I would consider myself a nice guy but I'm not good looking so I don't get a chance with women. But that just from my prospective. I think I'll blog about that at a later time.

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