• diabolicdame said on Jan 27, 2009....

  I totally agree with your last sentence. There is a difference between laziness or unwillingness and helplessness!

• seer said on Jan 27, 2009....

  I mean if someone is in a genuinely difficult situation I'm more than happy to lend a hand but she was just being pathetic and whingy and helpless.

   

  GRR I'M SO ANGRY

   

  How she reached 23 years of age is beyond me....

• GrapeKoolaid said on Jan 27, 2009....

  This the same ex you slept with?  

• Hegemone said on Jan 27, 2009....

  I couldn't agree with your more Seer. I simply get so frustrated with people who bitch, moan, whine and rant to me about how hard something is but when I suggestion about fifty different ways they can fix it either they don't want to do them for this, that or the other reason (basically that it will inconvenience them some other way).  If you think everything is going to get handed to you in this day and age ... well, you need to get out of that crib, take the silver spoon out of your mouth and open your eyes!

• seer said on Jan 27, 2009....

  Yeah.
   
  I have a friend who was kicked out of his parents house at 15. From being a homeless teenager he became a freelance aboriculturist, it grew, became a decent business, then he invested it in property and now lives quite comfortably.
   
  Or my friend who owns a bike shop. He started off by buying a car, getting a taxi licence, becoming freelance then starting a business.
   
  Hard work. Hard fucking work. Its getting me through college and it works for everyone sucessful that I know.
   
  So don't whinge to me and bitch about how you cant change your situation when its far less than what my friends have faced.

• Hegemone said on Jan 27, 2009....

  Exactly, it's scenarios like that that make me just want to smack people that whine because they have to actually work, and hard, at something.  Plus, look at how many homeless people there are, people who are sick and dying, children who are sick and dying and haven't had the chance to experience life.  Then these people want to sit around, perfectly healthy and able, just not willing, and whine about how crappy their lives are.  Go to a homeless shelter.  Go to a children's hospital.  Go to an animal shelter.  For fuck sake, you are not suffering as bad as you think you are and 9 times out of 10 you could fix it but you're too lazy to do it and just want a pity party.
  

• seer said on Jan 27, 2009....

  I agree totally!
   
  I think half the people on benefits in this country don't actually need it and are just being lazy. I'd say about 35% are depressed, which is fair enough I guess. I reckon 25% are actually needy, ill, injured, disabled or who cannot genuinely get a job.
   
  Which is why my tax is at 20% 

• fragglesrock said on Jan 27, 2009....

  hmmmm.....my girlie instincts are going crazy here and i'm wondering if she wasn't crying to you in the hopes you would save her from having to do anything for herself?

• seer said on Jan 28, 2009....

  Possibly.
   
  But there is nothing anyone can do for people like that.

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