Totally oblivious to the fact that 8 months down the line, this would become my full time occupation. I began as an HB on our weekend bootcamps; we have usually 5-10 hbs, so that the skills that the students would have been taught in the daytime can be practised out on them in the evening

I was a complete sceptic, a firm believer that either you liked someone or you didn’t. And nothing else could change that. Either the chemistry was there or it was not. Either I wanted to rip his clothes off or did not. Simple.

But as the months went by I found myself realising more and more that there were actual skills and real methods which could be taught, and I witnessed men who on first impressions seemed to have not much chance with most girls, due to being a bundle of nerves, having nothing to say, poor social skills, or a general low frame of mind, but after training some of those same men would suddenly become very appealing and were getting results from girls far more attractive than the average woman.

I began to give feedback to the students early on, but as the need for an honest female opinion became greater, so did my role. In order to give them more constructive criticism I began attending all the seminar/bootcamps/workshops that were around in the community. Armed with a notepad and pen and a naturally inquisitive mind I began to see which skills were working and which I felt from a female perspective might not be as effective in some areas.

As a trainer I teach more natural skills in game. I prefer to teach guys how to follow a set structure, a structure which I noticed all successful pick up artists seem to stick to, with or without the intention to do so, I have no real interest in changing their personalities , in my opinion to make/force a serious person funny or an intelligent person to act the circus clown, always seems uncomfortable to me - (a bit like watching a dog walk on its hind legs). Keeping to the structure I teach, will allow them to continue having their own personality and characteristics, which makes them unique., but having the structure to make their game stronger.

The main reason why I’m successful with my students is because of my honest female perspective. Not just that, but being an alpha female, they get to role play with some pretty impossible bitches if they’re lucky!

I understand how the female mind works, I know what we want what we don’t want, why we want it or why we back away from it. What clichés about woman ring true and which are false. I know the common misconception made about us and I know how to get deep in to our minds (I know how to do this with men too by the way) On top of this, I have another reason why I’m the only female trainer, and that is that I’m very much on the mans side. I see it from their eyes, and have absolutely no male hating tendencies, and my students know this, with my harsh words comes a gentle hug. A lot of woman can be very anti-men because of previous experiences that might have happened to her or her sister/friends/mother etc..) and this in turn will make them continue some sort of ridiculous sister hood loyalty bull shit. Me on the other hand, am very proud when woman do well and know woman have a lot more to give to this world than they have so far, but I’m not blind, and can see what we are doing and how in some areas our cycle of thinking which holds us back.