Over breakfast one morning, my friend and I were discussing things (of the sexual nature) we have done in the past, things we would like to do... and I brought up the limits of my comfort zone. He smiled and said he was going to help me explore outside that very safe area. He said he was going to throw a few tests my way and see what would happen. I was not sure what to expect.
The next day was Sunday and my phone rang. When I answered his voice was on the other end...
"Do you have a raincoat?" he asked in a very seductive voice.
"What?", I asked.
"You know a trenchcoat?"
"Yes."
"Take off all of your clothes and put it on. Meet me at my office in a half hour."
"Wait...it is sunny, 92 degrees out. I can't do that."
"Yes you can honey. Put it on and meet me."
"But my neighbors are out...I have to drive on a busy highway...I can't do that."
"It is exciting thinking about it though, isn't sweetie."
Silence on my part..."AHHH, you are thinking about it aren't you," he said with a smile in his voice.
"Put it on...I will see you in a half hour."Click.
Oh my God, I can't do this.....I can't do this...But I took off my clothes, donned my coat, put on a cute pair of black heels...WALKED OUTSIDE... in 92 degree heat, past my neighbors. I had my sunglasses on, so they couldn't see me, right? Drove down a crowded highway....the whole time thinking...what the hell am I doing? Don't go over the speed limit. what if I have an accident. Is anyone looking at me. (Then I remembered I had my sunglasses on, so they couln't see me. )
I got to his office, ran inside and leaned back on the wall. I made it. I couldn't breathe, my heart was racing.
I walked down the hall to his office, walked in the door and stood there. He had the biggest smile on his face. No words were spoken. He walked over, untied my belt, unbuttoned my coat and slowly pushed it off my shoulders and then let it drop to the floor.
What followed was unbelievable. I was so turned on as was he... one of our best afternnoons by far...
After all was said and done, I was somewhat proud of myself for venturing out of the comfort zone.
Have you ever wandered out of your comfort zone? Do you feel comfortable sharing?
Jenna posted on Aug 25, 2006
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silverwhisper said on Aug 25, 2006....
i have and i do but lack the time just now...
ed
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
Please come back and share when you have more time. :)
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Mamie said on Aug 25, 2006....
dear daring diva, may I point out that you are a fabulous writer? I LOVE the story of your adventure and it was sexy, scary and gutsy!! I was right there with you....um, wait, no, I didn't mean that!
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
Mamie... I noticed you did not tell of a time when you stepped out of your comfor zone...please share! I know there is a story there....
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secretlife said on Aug 25, 2006....
Thank heavens for those sunglasses!
There's nothing quite like stepping out of the comfort zone.
It's addicting tho.
I remember a time when I was 'working on' the sex in my marriage because I'd decided that our sex life was too 'normal' and boring.
Sometimes you have to push yourself out of the zone...
So I went out and bought this leopard-skin teddy with a black mesh back and feathers (yes feathers) at the hips.
Just buying the outfit was out of my comfort zone.
Putting it on was WAY out of it.
The rest of my plan was to dance with that outfit on for my husband.
I'm no dancer either. But I was determined to BE a dancer that night. A sulty, sexy, siren.
And I was.
We never made it to the bedroom.
I woke up with rug burns on my behind!!!!
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
SecretLife... sister... you crack me up...feathers??? dancing...I have also experienced the rug burns...aren't they a bitch? I would love to sit down with you at the summit quidnuic suggests and talk. I am two years your senior but I feel we have traveled similar paths. You are in N.J. I live in PA. Maybe we can do lunch one day. Wouldn't that be fun...we could have our own little summit... of course mamie and creative Woman would have to come....Where does CW live... do you know????
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
just looked on mrhowto"s post... Cw lives in freakin' missouri.. i say ROAD TRIP... are you with me ladies? wouldn't that be fun?
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secretlife said on Aug 25, 2006....
I'm laughing at you Jenna!!
I'd love to do lunch.
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silverwhisper said on Aug 25, 2006....
you know...i had some really crazy ideas, things i wanted to post, but as i thought about it, i realized that none of them actually got me out of my comfort zone.
except for maybe the time i seduced my (male) friend. nah, i don't think that was, either.
maybe the first threesome i had (MMF). yeah, i think that one did was probably the big one. that was several kinds of screwed up due to the college angst psychodrama.
ed
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
just told CW. someday we are headed her way... what is half way between us and missouri... I am going to have to look at a map.
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
Sw... You brought it up... I think you need to share the time you "seduced your male friend" and your " first threesome"....
come on... let's get this party started...
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silverwhisper said on Aug 25, 2006....
seducing my friend doesn't count: as i said, that wasn't really outside of my comfort zone.
and frankly, the threesome experience isn't one i'm particularly eager to discuss. i'll post it when i'm not buzzed, but i'm not comfortable doing this right now i'm afraid.
ed
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CreativeWoman said on Aug 25, 2006....
I actually do have an out of the comfort zone story.
The first time I was taken doggie style was in an outdoor public bathroom with the door half open because the light bulb was out. He bent me over the sink. It was so exciting trying to be quiet at the crucial moment knowing that the door was open. I felt so alive.
No one would ever guess I have done that. They all think I'm a good girl. (Insert evil laugh here.)
By the way, the road trip sounds good to me. :-)
CW
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
Sw... well now...in my short experience here you have held nothing back... but I understand the buzzedness factor... feel free to share if you care...I still think you need to tell us about your seducing your friend... even if it wasn't out of your zone.
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Jenna said on Aug 25, 2006....
cw. you make me laugh too... and at the same time I want to hug you and tell you everything will be ok. was the guy your husband or someone else before him? which state should we meet in? I am serious about this!
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CreativeWoman said on Aug 25, 2006....
He wasn't my husband. ;-)
In an unrelated matter...
I'm feeling a little better at the end of the day here. The Sweet Man called me. He has every day since we met. It was a little ray of light on my dreary day.
The road trip sounds like a hoot. We'll have to check our maps.
CW
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Zayda said on Aug 25, 2006....
Jenna--I swear. LOL. This is too funny. But, when I was in grad school, my fiance, whom I have written about, worked until 1 a.m. He got off work early one night, but I needed to pick him up.
I don't know what came over me that night, but I donned nothing but a black trench coat, black heels, and a single black garter to go pick him up. Granted, this wasn't the middle of the day, but it was a Friday night in a very busy college town, and getting to my car to go pick him up was interesting to say the least.
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CreativeWoman said on Aug 25, 2006....
I think I need to buy a trenchcoat. :-)
CW
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hotaka said on Aug 26, 2006....
I saw the title of this and was thinking about my first trip to China. I see this is not what you had in mind. I like what happened in your story. That was really something. I think the craziest thing I ever did was have sex with my girlfriend by the kitchen sink at school. Of course it was after everyone went home. But I have said too much...
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Dazlak said on Aug 26, 2006....
mastrubating my girlfriend in a crowded airplane... it was awesome...
having a loud noisy sex on the kitchen table with the windows wide open and the only thing you had to do to see was to walk past...
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silverwhisper said on Aug 26, 2006....
that MMF experience: quite frankly, it was a painful one and not one i'm happy reliving.
however, i can talk about one i had years ago. i like to shoot pool. i'm not bad at it, and someone and i went to a pool hall.
i asked her to wear a short dress and no panties, which she did. so every time she took a shot, she was flashing people. i wasn't entirely comfortable w/ it but it was incredibly arousing to know that people could see her, know that people knew she was with me and doing that.
ed
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Jenna said on Aug 26, 2006....
Thanks for sharing friends...I had fun with this one!
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Jenna said on Aug 26, 2006....
Oh and by the way...if that road trip ever happens...it is not exclusive...all are invited.
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rosking said on Aug 26, 2006....
Hi Jenna, just read your blog and I really love your writing style. I'll defenitly will subscribe to it. I also love your honesty in your posts.
You asked in my post if I was also new her.. yes I also just joined up this week.
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Jenna said on Aug 26, 2006....
Well then rosking...welcome to you and I look forward to getting to know you! Love to you!
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Mamie said on Aug 26, 2006....
hey jenna, you in here?
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