• fragglesrock said on Jan 15, 2009....

  it sounds like he initiated the conversation!? ***fraggles doing her happy dance for uni again*** i over think things too...but there's nothin' here to over think...woman...he's into you ;)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  frags - yes, he did initiate it, but I used a whole lot more words. (another flaw)

• fragglesrock said on Jan 15, 2009....

  ****fraggles referring quickly to her "book"****

• fragglesrock said on Jan 15, 2009....

  nope, nope, def. doesn't say anything in here about proper word counts on e-mail/im/text communication ;)

• Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....

  he initiated it.......you were yourself and used more words....so what!!!
  
  

• wishyouwerehere said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Uni - I think women generally use more words - best of luck with this, Spunky!  :)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  frags - send me a copy of the book.  apparently I need one.
   
  Fallyn - that's exactly it!  I don't know "what".  I guess I like to worry ;)
   
  wishy - LOL yeah, that word really cracks me up.

• Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....

  *grin* you ARE spunky.
  
  me? i just have to settle for pathetically cute.
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Fallyn - Hey! I resemble that word!  oh ... yeah.  Well, I was just getting used to being a "handfull", now it's "spunky".  As for you my dear ....... pathetically?!!  Nah!  You're just plain ol' cute, though you're a worrier like me.

• Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....

  you haven't seen me this morning.
  my eyes are all puffy and red...........i'd just say pathetic.....but he wouldn't let me......it has to be at LEAST pathetically cute.
  

• diabolicdame said on Jan 15, 2009....

  You're the girl.. ofcourse you're talking more!! But he said what he had to.. I especially like the 'Thanks, you will!'.. see he didnt need to say 'you will' but he did!! He's into you!! You spunky chick you!!  :-D

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Fallyn - some men find that very appealing.  Vulnerable, fragile, sensitive ........
   
  dd - LOL I hope he's okay with my overabundance of words, cause it's not likely to change.  I really do have listening skills too, they're just not as well used.

• CayenneMan said on Jan 15, 2009....

     I aint' saying a word but it's hard  . . . . I think he's a di  .  k!  And that's all. But you know me I'm jealous.  ;0)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  CM - what?!  Where is all this coming from?

• diabolicdame said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Mine neither!  ;-)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  dd - wow, that would make a conversation between us very interesting!! LOL

• Hegemone said on Jan 15, 2009....

  There's not even enough here to over think ... it is what it is Uni ... he WANTS to see you again of his own free will!  Don't fight it, let it happen ... it's real ... we'll all pinch you if you want though ... ; )

• Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....

  UI. *laughing* yes......i'm fairly sure he's one of those.  well....if he had any reason to be attracted to me like that.....he sure should have been last night.
  god. uggg.
  
  i don't see you going for the type of guy that is attracted to pathetically cute. ......you are not pathetically cute....you are awesome, and beautiful....and *grin* SPUNKY!
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Hege - I really do need to get a grip and just relax!!!

• starchini said on Jan 15, 2009....

  awww so cute uni with her tail all in a spin : P ...  I mirror everyone else.  Just relax.  Remember this and use it as a mantra "What is meant to be will be"...Be yourself, use as many words as you like and just see where the wind takes you!  I do hope you get a spin on that motorcycle though : P 

  Oh, and from reading your post im assuming their was definitly a click of some kind and u both have pretty good chemistry. 

  Where there is a click there is a way : ) 

  Relax uni, ur such a good catch, im sure hes more bonkers than u are right now trying to play it cool by using as little words as possible : P  And if not, fuck him.  U know what i mean!  : P 

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  star - LOL I hope you're right about it all

• GrapeKoolaid said on Jan 15, 2009....

  lol. 
  
  Spunky...  [waggles eyebrows]
  
  That's a good word to describe you.  It fits you well, I think.  :)
  
  Glad things are going in the right direction for you.  Let's hope he's a keeper, eh?
  
  
  

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Grape - Oh no!  not another spunkster! [mock horror]  I hope this is a good experience for me.

• Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....

  I just realised that HE emailed you first....DAHHHHHHHHHH **Donks Lorrie on the head** he initiated to find out if YOU thought HE was a freak... tee he hee he's interested allright.
   
  Stop giggling, you're a grown woman for gods sakes *-D

• cuppajava said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Sounds like he is interested to me

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Lu - [muffles a giggle] yes, I did have enough self control to wait for him to make the first move.
   
  cuppa - I hope so, he seems so fun and nice.

• bluegum said on Jan 15, 2009....

  sounds ok to me ,enjoy the moments you a grown woman.blue.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  blue - that's what they keep telling me!  I still have a hard time believing it. (that I'm a grown up)

• SlickNick said on Jan 15, 2009....

  I find that communication between a man and a woman when they first meet fascinating. There are so many emotions and thoughts that run through our heads when an attractive person talks to us. I really think he is into you Uni. Congrats and good luck! 

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Slick - Hi!  Nice to see you here!  Yes, those first few communications really do put a person all over the map emotionally.  I'm already nuts, so this just makes me all the more "interesting" to be around. ;)

• SlickNick said on Jan 15, 2009....

  I think you should just be your sweet self. Try not to over think things and keep things simple. Remember he is probably just as nervous, if not more so than you are, so relax and good things will happen. ;)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Slick - you don't really know me that well, do you? LOL overthinking and leaking "crazy" is kind of what and who I am!  (seriously, I'm working on it)

• hotaka said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Uhh... Sounds perfectly normal to me. Normal conversation between two people who met, had a good time, and hope to meet again.
  Don't worry. If you liked him then he probably liked you. It sounds like it. I think he's looking forward to meeting you soon. Remember, he too may have met a number of women who made him feel like, "Oh, God, isn't there a decent woman out there I can just enjoy spending time with naturally?"
  

• queenparanoia said on Jan 15, 2009....

  sweet... i think he's sweet... ;-)

• sweetsoul said on Jan 15, 2009....

  Trust me on a first date/meeting, a guy doesn't close the place down unless he's interested. There's nothing in the conversation above to suggest otherwise...that he enjoyed meeting you and wants to see you again.
   
  Enjoy.

• uniquely-ironic said on Jan 16, 2009....

  hotaka - If that's what he's thinking than he's in for a rude surprise! LOL (who said I'm normal?)
   
  queenie - I do to
   
  ss - Hello! and yeah, logically I know that .....
   
  icyxie - Hi!  it seems that way

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