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heels and helmets
 
So I get off of work a couple of minutes late last night and I immediately start scrambling.  I grab my jeans and heels and head off to McD's to change.  I absolutely don't want to change at work, thereby giving my coworkers fodder for gossip.  Even hustling I can tell I'm going to be late.  I hate being late, and I hate it when a date is late, so I call V and start to tell him I'm running late.  My cell phone cut out.
 
I drove a little further down the road and retried.  This time I got through and I'm apologizing for being late.  He seems pretty relaxed and easy going.  Not aggitated or irritated at all.  I'm liking him more already.  I arrived about 10 minutes late, and on my way into the coffee house I see a very shiny red motorcycle.  I'm thinking it's his and giggle because of the two shoes I bought, I'm wearing the red ones. (see picture above)
 
I look around when I get in and there is a small group of older men and another man sitting alone.  I walk up to him and say hello and he stands.  Thank the stars!! He's taller than me with my heels on!  A quick hug and he asks me what I'd like to drink.  I protest a little, saying I can order it, he waves it away.  I ask for a latte which he goes up to order.  I sit in the other chair and immediately my eyes fall to his helmet.  It is intriquately designed with a bunch of celtic knots in white black and red.  While he's ordering I sneak the picture above.
 
We sat and talked.  About family, life, kids, hobbies, love of all things old and on and on.  He doesn't seem put out that I'm a crazy woman with an even crazier life.  I'm liking that he is comfortable enough to tell me about his crazy family.  He's got a great sense of humor and we're laughing a lot.  He's also got this killer dimple on one cheek.  We're both reaching across the table now and then to touch an arm, etc.
 
Hours later one of the baristas comes over and lets us know the place is closing in 10 minutes.  We chat for a minute and then agree to call it a night.  As we're walking out he's suggesting that we get together again and I'm agreeing.  I ask him if the motorcycle I saw coming in is his and it is.  Then I ask him if I can take a picture of it, with me on it.  I tell him I have friends who I'd like to share it with as part of an ongoing blog I write.  He takes this picture.
 Lorrie on Bike
 
We're both busy until sometime next week.  Me with Sweetie this weekend, him with a trip to Oregon for family stuff.  I hope he does call and that we do get together next week.  Tenatively for a short hike.
 
*sigh*  I'm so hoping he's as normal as he appears.


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  • CayenneMan said on Jan 14, 2009....
        You know he better treat you right or he'll here from me. I think you better keep those shoes away from beyondtheveil or he'll be wearing them  ;0) 
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    CM - if he gives me trouble I'll give you a call.  As for the shoes .... really?  I had no idea BTV was like that.
  • Twylarants said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Girl, you look so good on that bike!  All my boys ride and I love riding with them but I'm sure it looks weird when I take my helmet off and people see this gray haired old lady climb off the bike...lol.
    He does sound like a nice guy...sense of humor, dimple, and a bike?  Oh, yeah.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Twirlie - I'm crossing my fingers that "weird" doesn't start leaking out after a couple of dates.  It would be so nice to date "normal" for a change.
  • MissMimi said on Jan 14, 2009....
    [hopping up and down, which for me is truly a sight to behold]  That is so terrific, uni-belle!  Love the pic on the motorcycle -- ya biker chick!  LOL
     
    Seriously, it's about time you had a little luck in the "normal guy" search.  I think it's great.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    MMM - [jumping up and down too when no one's looking]  I'm so cautiously excited!
  • MissMimi said on Jan 14, 2009....
    You do realize of course, that I'm living vicariously through you.  So make sure you have lots of mindblowing sex, okay?
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Oooooohhh I love the shoes.. and might I say your shoes and his bike go really well together!! A good sign!! hehehe... sounds like a really good first date uni.. I really really really hope it keeps going well and he does turn out to be as nice as he seems!! Yay for the dimple!! hehehe.. :-D
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    MMM - [blushes] well, we're not at that point yet, but you wouldn't hear a whole lotta argument if it came to that!  yes, you'll get the scoop (minus the very private moments) as this saga continues.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    dd - yes, the shoes really clinched it for me!  I mean, what are the odds?!!  He even remarked on them.  Said that he'd love to see me wear them with a retro 1930's type dress. (we're both antique buffs so to me that was a high compliment.  He wanted to see my legs and see me in a retro dress)
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 14, 2009....
    I just wanna add to my above comment that I'm sooo cautiously excited for you too!!  :-D
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Oh you're both antique buffs and he want to see you in a dress!! A little less cautious now and a lot more excited!! 
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    dd - keep positive thoughts coming this way.  Maybe with a little help from my friends this will be a good and positive experience.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    dd - my biggest problem with that whole thing is not really owning a dress, but shopping will fix that!
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Hehehehe.. and you already have shoes to match the dress to!! I'm sending so many good thoughts your way, you're going to be flooded in them! I so wish you well (and hope this works)!! hehehe   :-D
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    dd - as I sit here and ponder I think there is an antiques store nearby that carries vintage clothes.  If this really becomes something I will go look there.
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 14, 2009....
    A woman with a plan! Nice! Keep us updated on the call and second date situation, wont you!!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    dd - you know I will.  Trading text messages this morning already.
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 14, 2009....
    This guy has HUGE potential, Uni, he's well on his way to being as normal as you!
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 14, 2009....
    hmmm btw, biker chic you looked like you had a good time by the smile on your face...
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Lu - as normal as me?!  That's not too encouraging!  Yes, I totally did have a good time meeting and talking to this guy.
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 14, 2009....
    See thats it if you can talk and not want to run away then that is a big tick for another date, no gremlins poking their heads out of his shoulder.
     
    Normal as you yes, well, sense of humour, intelligence and just a little quirk (bike)
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Lu, this guy has all of that and more.  I'm having a hard time keeping my optimism in check.  The feeling I got when talking with him was like this long sigh of relief that you give when you walk into the front door of home after a long journey.
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 14, 2009....
    OMG, that normal? okay so you are allowd to do a happy dance, a jig even, save the swooning until the next date. 
     
    Ohh just remembered, did you introduce him to George? if he doesn't like george then you can't possibly go out with him again. :-}
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    LOL No, George stayed home.  I did mention that I'm a rabid blogger with friends scattered all over the world.  He didn't flinch at that, so I doubt George will be an issue unless George let's slip that he's slept with me ;)
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 14, 2009....
    ohhh god that would be terrible, he'd think you were in need of saving from the likes of George tee ehehehehehe
     
    glad you had a good night though, makes a difference from all the shit.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    yes it does.  Makes me think it might be worth kissing all those toads
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    *crossing all my fingers and toes* he'd better damn well be as normal as he seems.  you deserve a decent guy.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Fallyn - time will tell, and I'm being careful to guard my heart until my head gives it the go-ahead to fall for a guy.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    UI....i tried that.......good luck with that. :P
  • woman said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Glad you had a nice time Uni. The shoes were very cute! You look very pretty in the picture. Good luck.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Fallyn - I'm going to need all the luck I can get.
     
    woman - thanks, and I love the shoes too!
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Ooh!  A Triumph!  (Not just you finding someone normal, but the bike's brand...  A coincidence?  Or the celestial bodies lining up in your favor?  You should be able to tell by the angels trumpets and the heavenly choir in the background)

    :D
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Grape - in conversation it came up that he owns more than one of those types of motorcycles.  One being a 1955? (I think)  I thought the color match was more of a sign than the brand name ;)
  • Expendable said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Sounds like you had a fun time ^_^
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Jan 14, 2009....
    uni:  I'm sorry...  What were we talking about?  I got sidetracked by the bike...  :D

    Oh right! 

    The bike! 

    [shakes head] 

    I mean...  The guy (with the bike)!

    So easily distracted...  :D

    Don't overly concern yourself with the decor, though.  Unless you're looking for (or to be) a little arm-candy.  ;)
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    so so sooo much better than pepe le pew. :P
  • hotaka said on Jan 14, 2009....
    So far, so good. It sounds like a great first date. I like your shoes, by the way, and you look great on the bike. I mean, you look normal, decent and attractive like that. It is still early but I hope things work out. If not, I hope you find out soon enough. But I want to think things are going to go well. Here's hoping they do.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Expendable - I totally did.
     
    Grape - I'm okay being arm candy if that means I get to have a little fun!
     
    Fallyn - no comparison.  I can't believe I stayed and talked as long as I did with Pepe.
     
    hotaka - I'm trying to remain cautious, but I'd like to think this could work out.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    ask this guy if he even OWNS a yellow scarf.....
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Fallyn - LOL I did mention the Pepe LePew incident to him and he had one of those "you're shitting me!" looks on his face.  Apparently he had a few "interesting" dates as well.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    i wonder if you could set up a dating service for those REALLY out there dates......and set them up with each other.

    i wonder what kind of woman would be a good match for a guy that wears a long yellow scarf and has a fake accent.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 14, 2009....
    Fallyn - probably the woman who bought his daughter an organic chocolate cake that tasted like sawdust.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 14, 2009....
    *laughing* ....no...pepe was *supposedly* french.....they like really rich things to eat.....i'm guessing the sawdust cake wouldn't go over too well.
  • destinydiva said on Jan 15, 2009....
    wow!! uni do you remember that cosmic order???   the 7 days end today and here you are telling us about a fab date!! (does he have a job??..he passed the heels test!!) :-) yipppeeeeyaaaaaaaayyyyy xx
  • pickersplock said on Jan 15, 2009....
    I'm wishing you good luck Uni!
  • fragglesrock said on Jan 15, 2009....
    uni!!!! helloooooo!!!! i'm lovin' the shoes, the bike, the helmet and your story (i cheated and read the day after post before commenting here)  i'm throwing caution to the wind and getting excited for you! ***fraggles doing her happy dance for uni***
  • PAPERBACKWRITER said on Jan 15, 2009....

    *giggles*

    ... i did advancing commenting too, uni! :D

    ... i am so delighted and thankful you had a great time, but to be honest i am more delighted and thankful you both  took "us" with you by taking the pictures!

    [pins uni with the medal best & loyalest  SCer evaaa]

    ... hihihi i wish i was there to witness how you sneaked a pictorial of the sexy red shoe and the helmet! (LOL at the convo between you and V about it!)...

    paper ~



  • starchini said on Jan 15, 2009....
    ooo is that sulfur i smell from the sparks coming off of you two?  hehehe...
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Fallyn - probably true, but he deserves the sawdust cake
     
    Des - yes, as a matter of fact he has a good job, owns a home (minor miracle in this area) and is tall enough for heels. 
     
    pickers - thanks, and if he turns out to be a bum you can punch him for me ;)
     
    frags - If he turns out to be good for me I'll join you.
     
    PBW - well you know me.  I tell you guys (SCers) everything.
     
    star - no, it's the exhaust from the motorcycle! ;)
  • Hegemone said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Loverly photos Uni ... I just absolutely LOVE those shoes!  Sounds like you had a wonderful time.  I'll be rooting for ya that this one is a normal keeper.  You certainly deserve a little goodness, so I'm hoping you get it!  
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Hege - I'm hoping the shoes matching his bike and helmet was a "sign".  The shoes are absolutely great!!  I just hope my daughter doesn't steal them.
  • starchini said on Jan 15, 2009....
    lol uh oh uni!  are  u just star struck by his bad boy image?  lol, dont fall into that trap, for long any way : P 
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    star - at our age it's near impossible to have a "bad boy" image.  If anything he's so ridiculously old fashioned and morally uncorrupted that I find so appealing.
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 15, 2009....
    I'd steal them if your daughter doesnt!! You shoudl sleep with an eye open!!  :-P
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    dd - well now I'll have to!  Wait until I send pictures of the purple ones I bought the same day! 
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    So Uni are you saying you like them pure to start with so that you can corrupt them your own way? ruin them for any other woman? like your style
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Lu - no, not at all.  I like a man with some ideas of his own.  Of course they are ruined for any other after me, but that's a whole 'nother problem ;)
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    well it should be looked at like a training ground I think.  Hard labour never killed no one so make him work...
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Lu - LOL I like how you think
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    pssst... David was giggling at us yesterday morning, he kept arching his eyebrows at me laughing... thanks for the call. :-D
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    Lu - the pleasure was all mine.  I bet he thought you were the most patient person being so condescending to this little lunatic. :)
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    no way... definitely no condescending at all, why do you say that?
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    duh .... me giggling 1/2 the time instead of actually talking.  Oh wait!  That's pretty normal for me.
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    and me... he said to me "is that a new kind of language then huh?" too right it is..
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    there is something more deeply communicated in a shared giggle than a 1000 words
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    of course there is, the intonation of a giggle has a million meanings in it.  farr to many meanings than real words.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    And it feels better.  I mean, if I couldn't be a giggling fool I'd just die!
  • Lucytorial said on Jan 15, 2009....
    as I've always said, if I aren't smilling or laughing you know I'm dead.  Life is too short to create wrinkles from frowing or stress, far better to create wrinkles from laughing and smiling.
     
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    wrinkles?  what are those?  I don't have a single one ......... that I'll own up to. ;)
  • Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....
    i might not have wrinkles.........but i've got more white hair than i'd EVER care to admit.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 15, 2009....
    white hair? what's that?  I don't have a single one of those either! ;)
  • Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....
    yes....well.....i'll be 33 next month....and i've got at LEAST one for each of those years....and probably another 10 for each of the years my ex and i were together.

    entirely TOO MANY white hairs for someone in her early thirties i say.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 15, 2009....
    i meant in a couple weeks....not next month.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 16, 2009....
    Fallyn - as long as I live in denial I will have smooth skin and dark hair.  You should try that.  It's easier then owning up to wrinkles and gray/white hair.
  • Fallyn said on Jan 16, 2009....
    yeah...and then one day i look in the mirror and reality sideswipes me and i end up in the hospital from a nervous breakdown. :P
  • Twylarants said on Jan 16, 2009....
    And the nice thing is when you're old enough to have wrinkles and gray hair your eyesight is so bad you can't see them anyway so you can live in denial a long time.  Just remember to take your trifocals off before you look in the mirror.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 16, 2009....
    Fallyn - LOL I hope not.  You're too young for that.
     
    Twirlie - *giggles* I've been avoiding the eye doctor for about a year now
  • Fallyn said on Jan 16, 2009....
    hey....i've already had two!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 16, 2009....
    Fallyn - well stop that nonsense!  will ya?  Just take a moment to realize that you're no crazier than anyone else in this world.  We all have our "golden moments".
  • Fallyn said on Jan 16, 2009....
    *laughing* well...i haven't had a break down in a very long time.....and things are different and looking up....and i'm better inside.....so...no...no more breakdowns....
    even if i do look in the mirror and look like i'm 70 when i'm 40.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 16, 2009....
    Fallyn - paaleeeese!  I'm definately gonna have to come up there and "set you straight" young lady!
  • Fallyn said on Jan 16, 2009....
    *laughing* okay.

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