I've always wondered why, in my family, sexuality on the part of the female is frowned upon. Sex is considered to be for the joy and pleasure of the male as well as for procreation ..
missionary
no toys
no aids
no masturbation
Sex is not to be discussed. At all. Ever .. with the only exception being explaining the facts of procreation and how everything works. All you get after that is sex is evil until you're married, assuming you ever get married. If you should not marry, you're held to the (probably) impossible standard of life-long celibacy and asexuality.
My mom knows that my [now ex] husband and I were "experimenting" with the s&m and bondage and what-not ... spankings, clamps, toys, restraints and the like ... we were promptly called freaks and deviants and that we're not healthy. In all honesty I see no problems with what we were experimenting with as long as it is between two consenting adults. Whatever, though.
