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If you've followed my posts, you know that I tend to supress the otherwordly
even though it tends to bite me in the butt from time to time.
 
If you don't believe in this stuff, just do us both a favor and stop reading.
 
I need advice.
 
As you know my father communicated with me after he passed away last year and was able to let me know where a large sum of money was hidden.
The night after his communication, I was able to locate this money within fifteen minutes and present it to my mother.
She has always told me I have a special gift, she thinks one of my sons has it as well.
I tend to laugh it off.
 
I rarely talk about it, because it's embarrassing and I don't want anyone to think I'm nuts.
 
There are two other stories in my life, which are so freaky that if you had been there, you'd believe.....................well, someday I'll tell them.
 
Anyway, a friend of the family lost his Dad a few months ago...................and ever since then, his Dad (the deceased) has been pestering me to talk to his son.
Not all the time, but just enough to get on my nerves.
And when we were out with his son a few weeks ago, it was almost unbearable.
I don't know why he's bothering me, so far there's no clear cut message as to what I'm supposed to tell his son......................and jeez, I don't want this guy to think I'm off my rocker!
 
So, I don't know.  what would you do?


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Jan 05, 2009....
    talk to the son.  If you feel easier about not mentioning that his dad sent you, try to omit that from the message.
     
    I think it is great that you have this ability.
  • quietone said on Jan 05, 2009....
    I also think this is a great gift you have (sometimes not great) but you know what I mean.  I would mention it to the son as well.  there may be some one thing that will come about during that time.  So what if he may think you are off your rocker, you just may change is mind and put his mind at ease about some thing too.  :)  good luck and let us know how it turns out!
  • evil_twin said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Ooh, this is really interesting. And you know I totally believe in all of that stuff, so I most definitely do not think you're crazy at all. I think maybe you should try and see if you can get a clear message to tell the son, and then I would tell him. But if you can't get anything concrete maybe you could just ask his son if he believes his dad might still be around, just to get a feel for what his beliefs are. And then go from there and see if he's open to hearing about what you have to say.

    -evil_twin LA
  • Me-Myself&I said on Jan 05, 2009....
    tell it like it is. he may himself feel his father, it maybe a comfort that someone else is experiencing the same. he may feel he is off his rocker. just a thought, but i'd tell it like it is, it's easier to get it out! good luck. i believe!
  • beyondtheveil said on Jan 05, 2009....
    pickers- I've never had anything remotely paranormal happen to me, but my wife has and is so grounded barely talked to me about it. I've heard too many stories, some coming from children, to make me think there is nothing to it. What this means is that I don't think you're nuts.

    As to your problem, It all revolves around how well received you would be by the friend. I'd feel the person out and try to determine this. If it was me, I'd want to know what you have to say.
  • CreativeWoman said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Are you able to ask the man's father what exactly it is he wants you to tell him?  I don't think you are crazy at all.  I believe it is real.

    CW
  • queenparanoia said on Jan 05, 2009....

    youre not crazy. i have experince this before. well, once when my friend died. i think you should help your friend. maybe there are some unknown questions she need to ask him.

    nothing wrong with believing in something we can't explain...

  • Twighlight said on Jan 05, 2009....
    The fact that you have this ability is such an amazing thing! I totally believe that there are times that we do receive messages from the afterlife, more so from those that we were close to in this life. I also believe that most of us really do have this ability, but some are more sensitive or in tune with being able to connect. I have had a few connections with loved ones I have lost, but not to give messages to others, but to receive answers to unanswered questions that I have, or in strange ways, advice.
     
    I think you should do what your gut/intution tells you to do. Tell us more about your experiences!
  • Twighlight said on Jan 05, 2009....
    The fact that you have this ability is such an amazing thing! I totally believe that there are times that we do receive messages from the afterlife, more so from those that we were close to in this life. I also believe that most of us really do have this ability, but some are more sensitive or in tune with being able to connect. I have had a few connections with loved ones I have lost, but not to give messages to others, but to receive answers to unanswered questions that I have, or in strange ways, advice.
     
    I think you should do what your gut/intution tells you to do. Tell us more about your experiences!
  • Twighlight said on Jan 05, 2009....
    The fact that you have this ability is such an amazing thing! I totally believe that there are times that we do receive messages from the afterlife, more so from those that we were close to in this life. I also believe that most of us really do have this ability, but some are more sensitive or in tune with being able to connect. I have had a few connections with loved ones I have lost, but not to give messages to others, but to receive answers to unanswered questions that I have, or in strange ways, advice.
     
    I think you should do what your gut/intution tells you to do. Tell us more about your experiences!
  • Twighlight said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Ok, so my message got posted 3 times? NUTS
  • diabolicdame said on Jan 05, 2009....
    I believe!! I've seen it happen!! I think you should certainly talk to the son.. bring up his dad's passing away.. scope him out you know.. and maybe the conversation will lead you to saying to him what you want. Maybe he's in great pain and his dad thinks that sending a message through you would be reassuring.. or something like that. So yea.. I think you should give it a shot. By the way this is such a great gift.
  • Twylarants said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Maybe if you told him you had a dream about his Dad in which he asked you to talk to his son you could see how receptive he is to this kind of thing.  This way he has the information whether or not he believes the way you got it.
  • woman said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Woman jumps up and down!! I vote for Twla!! Good plan. Go for it.
  • woman said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Woman jumps up and down!! I vote for Twla!! Good plan. Go for it.
  • mypeanutbrain said on Jan 05, 2009....
    oooh. interesting. i think you should help your friend's dad.he might want to say something..
  • fragglesrock said on Jan 05, 2009....
    i also like twyla's plan!!! smart thinking twyla!
  • Hegemone said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Darn it, late as usual ... but I've got to agree with Twyla, that would be the perfect way to test the waters and see what he'd think.  Just choose your words wisely and tread lightly.  Good luck no matter how you decide to handle it!
  • pusscat said on Jan 05, 2009....
    This is a hard one isn't it pickers?  I so feel for the man too - I can almost see him jumpin' up and down and hollerin' at you in frustration and impatience, but I also know you want to what is right. 

    I think Twyla's idea about saying you had a dream is a marvellous idea.  It would be a shame though for the young man not to know the truth that his dear dad is wanting to make contact.  You could just ask the guy how he's doing since losing his dad.  I know so many people never asked me when my dad died - I guess they thought it would upset me or they just didn't know what to say but all I wanted to do WAS to talk about him, the good dtuff, the silly stuff and to just say how much I missed him.  Your dilemma may disappear the moment he opens his mouth depending on what HE says as right now, we don't know what he's gonna say.

    I hope it goes well :-*
  • travelr712 said on Jan 05, 2009....
    oftentimes when i'm prompted to talk to someone without a clear message, i've found that it is the conversation that develops that is important. so you don't necessarily need to have a specific message to give. this is especially prevelant when the person i'm supposed to talk to needs to come to some realization themselves. twyla's idea is indeed a good one, it'll start that conversation without seeming too overt, and allow your friend to drive it to where he needs it to go.
  • pickersplock said on Jan 05, 2009....
    Wow, I wasn't expecting this response!
    It's good to know you're ot all freaked out by this, because I have freaked other people out in the past by telling them things.
    I think that's why I've supressed it so much and why I can't always make things out like I should be able to.
    I'll go with the dream idea the next time I see him!
  • -clt- said on Jan 18, 2009....
    I know from experience that when the dead make a request of you its best to comply. If you don't it will get worse until you really can't take it anymore. Besides, suppose you were among the dead and found someone living who could relay a message to your loved ones. What if the living were unwilling to cooperate? You'd continue to be in limbo. Give this guy what he wants and be done with it so all 3 of you can move on. Trust me, I know from experience, IT WILL GET WORSE! Just ask the guy how he's been since his father's passing. Probe a little bit and then you'll know when you're done. You will feel it, he will let you know. Don't forget, its nothing personal, you're just the messenger!
  • hotaka said on Jan 20, 2009....
    I believe you. Not because I believe in ghosts as much as I believe their are people who have this gift and only because I have met a few since coming to Japan. Me? A ghost could be screaming in my ear and dancing naked on my shoulders and I wouldn't have the foggiest clue.

    I just watched Ghost Town for the second time this week. I like that movie.

    So, I think you might have to ask the father what's up and then try to either explain to the son what you know or find another way to bring up the subject and...

    Oh, shit. Gotta train to catch!
    Good luck!

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