Unfortunately, some men don't realize that certain factors will deter a woman from accepting an advancement or invitation from a total stranger. Here are the top 10 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman: 1- Forgetting her comfort zone Just because you know you're a nice guy, that doesn't mean she will. It is important to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and the important thing is for you to come across as a harmless guy. A little humor usually helps. 2- Trying to fool her The second biggest error most men make is that they don't give women enough credit and respect. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Women know that you're trying to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and straightforward guy. 3- Approaching without a plan Some people can improvise successfully, but regardless of the case, having a plan always helps your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating. 4- Acting like a pervert A lot of men sabotage their chances with women by keeping their eyes aimed down at their breasts. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto hers. You want her to think that you're the knight in shining armor who's going to sweep her off her feet -- not the dog who's just sniffing any old fire hydrant ready to mark his territory.