I have always loved my husband and always will. His parents on the other hand have been a handful.
Well recently my husband expressed his feelings about another baby, .... he wants to try again.
Now I would absolutely love to, I HAVE WANTED TO, he was the one always in protest. I never really pushed the issue, because I was hoping to get back to my prebaby weight and hopefully go back to work and get some more money into our savings account. BUt I am now having second thought, I never thought that he would say that he wanted to have another baby, not at this point in time.
So my dilemma is should I agree and try to have another baby right now? Or wait and get some savings do it later. The other part is HE IS IN AGREEMENT, if I pass this up will it come around again? My husband has always been one that if he is set to something there is nothing you can do to change his mind. So I thought I had sometime to wear him down. He is also the type that if he is in agreement with something and has offere you something, you take it. If you take too long and the subject becomes difficult he takes it back and does not want to deal with it.
Anyway my first and foremost reason for wanting to wait is because his parents are going back at the end of this year and last time I was pregnant they were also due to go back home. They ended up staying to see their grandson, because I refused to go to Mexico. So anyway I am afraid they will decide to stay another year, especially if it is a girl. They will definitely stay.
COMMENTS, PLEASE.
Confused in Illinois
mum2jay posted on Aug 23, 2006
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Delite said on Aug 26, 2006....
IF you have a lot of pounds to lose for your last baby, and they have another baby on top of that it will be VERY hard to lose all the pounds after this pregnancy. But if he wants a baby now you can start to get in shape now and stay fit while your are pregnant. But if you need money its not a good I idea to have a baby now, money problems add so much stress and a crying baby on top of that would be messy. But who knows when he will want to have a baby again. I know I am not being much help huh? I am in the same boat right now. I wish you all the luck!!!
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dailyachesandpains said on Sep 14, 2006....
I don't really know what I would do in your situation. My Husband wants another baby. I have severe anxiety issues about everything and unfortunately, couldn't have another one at this point in my life.
I would like to say that I absolutely do NOT get along with my in-laws, however, they wouldn't stop me from having or not having another baby. As much as I do not care for them, it's about my happiness and my family, not them. I fully agree with Delite's comment on the money issues. If it's a problem now, it'll only be a bigger problem. You wouldn't want to stress it the entire pregnancy.
I have a thought with regard to your in-laws... if you were to decide to have a baby and get pregnant, just don't tell them until AFTER they go home! oooh that's oh so sneaky, but I wouldn't hesitate to do it! I can't believe I'm saying that, but I'm just being honest!
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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