So after 9 years of in law hell I decided to create a blog to provide myself with a safe place to "vent". My "in law" (whom I just call "the others") stories would take a novel to explain and they continue to be on going. These people are no better than animals and I hate each and every one of them...I really wish that they would just leave my husband, kids, and me alone to live our own lives.
They are all just sick and the entire family dynamics is absolutely dysfunctional..FIL and his brothers are all ex-cons who take great delight in "bragging" about their prison stays and illegal exploits during their younger years..This disgusts me and I find nothing "brag worthy" about being a criminal. FIL likes to brag about this in front of the Grandchildren..I also have reason to believe that FIL "likes" little girls. His entire persona is that of a common "thug".
The MIL is an absolute night mare. She is a habitual liar who wants to control all her adult children’s lives and those of her Grandchildren as well. She wants all her adult children and Grandchild to either live under the same roof with her or right next door so that she can attempt to maintain daily control of their lives, families, and marriages. This woman is the devil incarnate and I hate her guts.
The BIL (husband’s younger brother) is an absolute psycho case who had no control over his emotions. He will flip out and go psycho at the drop of a hat and in front of his kids and everyone else’s kids. I'm talking about screaming, yelling, spitting, and frothing at the mouth temper tantrums like a person possessed. He has an obsession with my husband to the point that he imitates him and, I think, wants to be my husband. He is in his 30's and is so dependent on his parents. He is his mothers little puppet.
BIL's wife (whom I call Lucifer) is also a "case". She has a "thing" for my husband and has for years. When DH and I started dating she behaved like "the jealous ex wife" and treated me like I stepped in a stole her man and step kid (my step daughter). Every time she is around my husband she practically falls over with her legs in the air and behaves like a giggling tittering girl with a high school crush.
Husbands little sister (who is really his half brothers kid but was raised by husbands parents) is an absolute mess...She is 27 years old, married, and recently has a kid but has never lived out from under her parent’s roof. She has a master’s degree yet won’t get up off her lazy butt and get a job. Instead she sits around and fakes one illness after another with her hand out expecting everyone to provide for her like she is a helpless infant. She won't even accept enough responsibility for herself to get a drivers lisence.When it comes to the men in her family she puts on a "baby act" and hangs all over them like a hooker in a bar..She makes me want to puke!
SIL's husband was raised as her cousin (though not technically blood related) and he can't keep his butt out of run ins with the law or drug court. Seems fitting that the only man she could find to marry and put up with her family is a person who was raised in the sick family. No one else would put up with it or with her lazy ass!
Husband has had little to nothing to do with his family because he thinks they are all "wack jobs" and he doesn't want them around our children. They are all in a rampage because my husband recentally re-enlisted in the Army. The problem? They wanted him to "get out" where he could be "closer" to them. In other words, they want him to live either under their roof, right next door, or so close to them that they can intrude in our home, marriage, and life on a daily basis..
They all live in squalor and hand to mouth every month mooching of other family members to get by. When one family member moves to another state then all of the family moves..They don't care that we have bills to pay, kids to provide for, or a future to provide for. They would like us broke and living in squalor right next door to them..It makes me sick..
I hate them all....I wish this crazy bunch of bottom feeders would all just go off a cliff!!
