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If you are dating a married man, it is more likely that your friends have advised you to put your affair with a married man to an end. The reason is justifiable. A woman loving a married man is more likely to suffer from emotional stress. For one, it is difficult to have an affair with somebody who has marital vows with another. Two, women having an affair with married men are also more likely just being used. Statistics have even showed that there are very few men who leave their family for another woman. Here are some things that you need to do if you are in love with a married man:
Consider the pros and cons of the relationship. It is important that you do some evaluation to assess the benefits and disadvantages of the relationship. You might be hoping that your man will leave his family for you so you two can be together happily but what about the other people who will be hurt because of your affair with a married man? Think about the family and children who will be hurt if they will be taken for granted just because of you. It would be better to make the sacrifice yourself than seeing another family being broken because of an immoral affair with a married man.
Assess if the man you are going with really loves you. You might be thinking that you want to pursue the relationship because you and your man are in love with each other but if your man truly loves you, will he not think the best for you? Your man knows the consequences of the relationship. He knows that your family and friends will detest you. He even knows that you can be expelled from your job on moral grounds of having an affair with a married man. A man who truly loves you will not bear the thought of you going through all these sacrifices. Assess whether the man you are going with is pursuing the relationship because he loves you or he just wants to take advantage of you.
Think about your future. Do not waste away a life for a man who does not care what will happen to you as a result of having an unacceptable relationship with him. Remember not to limit yourself on one married man because there will be plenty of opportunities for you to meet more eligible guys. You deserve a guy who can truly and morally love you.
If you are in love with a married man, it is important that you consider the pros and cons of the relationship. You will also need to assess if the man you are going with really loves you. A man who truly loves you will not bear the thought of you going through all the hurts and sacrifices. Lastly, think about your future. You deserve a guy who can truly and morally love you.
Why do some single women date married men? After all, relationships with unavailable partners usually result in heartbreak. Most of the men never leave their wives, and the ones who do are no bargain: They're the type of guys who cheat on their wives.
But women who date married men know this from the beginning. So what's the payoff for getting involved with one?
She is attracted to him because he's already involved with somebody else. In many cases, the Other Woman wouldn't be turned on by the guy if he wasn't. The fact that he's "taken" is proof of his desirability. The fact that another woman's husband wants her is proof of hers.
Forbidden relationships are filled with desire, suspense, and excitement. Married men are only available occasionally; the guy's wife may be sick of looking at him, but the Other Woman never knows when he can steal away to be with her. She can't wait to see him and makes the most of their time together.
Consciously, the Other Woman may long for him to leave his wife, but subconsciously she's glad he probably won't. She will never have to pick his socks off the floor, listen to him scream at his kids, or use the bathroom after he's knocked off 25 pages of the latest Tom Clancy in it.
Deep down, the woman who habitually dates married men (or is attracted to them) has commitment issues. She may curse her bad luck, but she's probably terrified of marriage. She may dread the day-to-day routine. She may fear boredom. She may be afraid that wedlock will spell the end of her independence. She may also believe that all men are incapable of fidelity. To avoid making herself vulnerable, she continually casts herself as the partner-in-crime rather than the potential victim.
Whatever her reasons, poaching another woman's husband is flat-out wrong. And, while the wife may never find out about the affair, both cheaters ultimately suffer from guilt and eroding self-respect.
If you're involved with a married man, sit down and have a talk with yourself. Determine what exactly attracts you to a doomed, morally bankrupt relationship. Determine your fears and beliefs about men and marriage. Come to terms with those that don't serve you and your future happiness.
Then put one foot in front of the other. Walk away from your married man and don't look back. The guy's no bargain.