Ok, fair enough, i might be over reacting, but whats you opinion????????????

We have been dating for 18months now, but things are really weird at times....
He has moved in with me recently, and somehow found the time to scratch through all my personal belongings, while i werent home. Now if i say personal belongings i mean all my paperwork, photos, drawers, suitcases, old handbags ect ect... Now i didnt know this at first but when we had an argument last night he mentioned photos of my ex, and an old dildo (which i received as a naughty gift at my kitchen tea years ago)....... wow was i shocked, even i forgot about this thing!!! And the photos is for my kids, not for me, as it is packed away in a box way up in my closet.

Anyway still recovering from the shock finding out that he has itchy fingers scrating around, lets get to the reason why we had another fight for the 1000000th time. He is always talking about this or that guys chick or wife thats screweing around and always has the details.... i mean like really, he knows the exact details ect ect.... so i told him i dont wanna hear this shit cause i dont know the people and i dont care what they do, besides there is a reason for every man and womans behaviours. If she drinks till 3 in da morning and goes out, well then let her, its her life not mine.
Anyway, my fiance went out a few weeks ago "to go gamble and make some extra cash as we were really broke" but when i woke up i found him on the couch, pist out of his mind. He couldnt even explain why. The next morning he said that he wasnt in da mood to sit there by himself so he invited a friend along and ya.... they started drinking. Oh ya and just to bring this to your attention....my fiance does not drink!!!!!! Not at all... he hates alchohol! But anyway, back to the fight! So after him carrying on about this guys wife who screws around and stays out all night, i mentioned that i understand the mans agony as you (my fiance) also did it once, and it was heart wrecking...but i got over it and moved on with no harsh feelings.
My fiance just there and then shouted and screamed at me, and started accusung me of the most horrific things... And all I said was one little harmless sentence!!!! I was still laughing saying it..

This is when i relaised my fiance isnt tooooo well in his head... He turned around and said that he also knows how it feels.... I sat there in awwwe trying to understand what he is trying to say.... but was shocked to discover that he was accusing me of having affairs with all my workers at work. And that i use my dildo to please me, while looking at my ex's photo's.
He said that he sniffs my panties every night to make sure i didnt have s*x at work, and that before he finally moved in with me, he sat in his car parked up the road and watched my flat every night to make sure im alone.......... He also said that he follows me to shops without me knowing, just to make sure im not meeting up anyone........ He told me this after i defended myself... by saying that i have never ever been unfaithful to him or my ex.

But even though he has followed me around, watched me from a distance, gone through my phone (over and over), gone through my belongings, sniffed my panties and came out with no evidence that i am unfaithful, he still accuses me!

He has two kids from two previous relationships, but is not allowed to see them. Apperantly according to him, they are just being bitches... But now i wonder, is it them or him?

He gets upset when i dont give him the same attention i give my two sons, and then goes all morbat and feeling sorry for himself.... Always comparing his ex's with me... They were the ones who screwed around and did this and that.... but his sister told me a comlete other version...

I really think im engaged to a psychopath!!!

Oh ya and while im writing this, he just phoned me and told me that i started the fight with him last night and i need to apologise........ He always does it... He turns everything around and manipulates it in such a way so that i look like the guilty one.... But as God is my wittness, I know what the truth is and i know how it started..... He is psycho!