CuppaJava aka Vince aka Fetlife's darkinhere has blocked me....apparently hes the only one allowed to out people but should be granted ammunity from being outed himself.  Or should I say herself.....some of those posts CJ are just a little too femm to be the work of a bloke!  Especially one claiming to be straight.

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  • pusscat said on Dec 16, 2008....
    Ha ha thats hilarious babs - absolutely hilarious!   You see - you can't out him anymore cos he's outed himself.  Oh and by the way, I've also met a few people off collarme.com now (not the South African one I originally joined but the national one) and now have some friends, Doms and subs in my local area (spilsby and Boston and one in London who still has family in my area) who also now know cuppa and have webcammed with him.  Definitely got a nice little 'old man' between his legs too.  Mind you - could be a tranny I guess.  Won't know THAT for sure till I meet him.  Hmmm. . . .pusscat sits pondering.  Mind you - don't have to wait long now for that :))

    For anyone who is reading this, if babs doesn't delete or block, CJ called her by her christian name on one of his comments on her post ages ago and did apologise profusely.  He knows it was an absolute faux pas.  Ownedgalbabs was writing some very hard emotional stuff, real life, that would have been very hard for anyone to go through let alone write.  Cuppa was trying to do the same thing.  Writing about how his wife was killed by a drunk driver, and trying to support babs too.  He was not in a very good place.  It was during this time, whilst his mind was not straight that he made the error.  Babs did make it clear to him then how annoyed she was.  She broke friendship and correspondence some time later and since then we have had no contact with her.  This is what I don't get babs.  Why have you now come along to do bad things here.  Is it not you who knows exactly what it is like to have people trying to cause you hurt and pain in cyber space?  You were victimized by a nutter - a completely unstable person that had no right to do to you what she did.  But you are now trying to cause trouble for us and i honestly truly don't get it.

    Everyone on SC knows about CJ and I being a couple.  They know I am a submissive and everyone has been great with me.  I love them for that - not judging me.  I guess it doesn't take a genius to figure what our relationship is.  If you want the words kink or BDSM written, so be it.  but I honestly don't get why you are getting at us like this.  We may not have parted on great terms but I thought we still had the respect of the friendship that once was.  I certainly had no malice towards you whatsoever.

    You know what I was doing just before I found this post?  Replying to my sister about how it is fine for us to celebrate Christmas on Friday instead of Thrusday cos the 3 days after her chemo (she is on Carboplatin if anyone wants to look it up - she has non-small cell lung cancer, stage 4 - spread to a distance site) she is so ill Christmas would be shit for her but she may be well enough to open presents with us on the Friday.  I will not beg babs, but I would like this to stop - I really would.  You know Vince - I may as well use his name now you have - has been my rock.  i am not sure how I would get through all this without him.  Hubby is so depressed himself, he is struggling to deal with it.  Everyone here on SC has also been fantastic.  You have lost a loved one after years of fighting for that precsious life.  Do you see what we are about to go through?  Do you see?  Do you understand babs?  Stop this while your concience can have a decent come back.

    Respectfully though struggling with it

    pusscat
  • Lucytorial said on Dec 16, 2008....

    payback huh? well dear all I can see is that you are behaving like a 3 yr old.

    Puss... what people don't know shows huh? CJ / Vince female?? BWAA HA HA HA laughable, actually almost as laughable as your post.  Are you that insecure luv, really? does it hurt you that much?

    Get over yourself and fucking grow up.

  • pusscat said on Dec 16, 2008....
    Thanks Lucy - I don't think she realises just how many friends CJ has here.
    To be frank (I love that expression LOL) I think she is having a breakdown.  Put it this way, if everything was fine in paradise I don't think she'd have bothered to come back here do you?  Another sign is the awful illiteracy!  I could have swore she used to be able to spell better than that! 
  • cuppajava said on Dec 17, 2008....
    Thank you to the ladies who have commented on the above 'post'  - and you both know that i mean that.
    But you know something,if I was really to react to this,and to really give it the response that it deserves - what type of person would I be? I have no intention of stooping to the levels of the 3 year old who wrote this,and yes,I believe I shall get them a dictionary for Christmas - or maybe they just spell differently in Canada....oops,I wasnt supposed to tell everyone where they live,oh well.If they wish me to unblock them - well,this is precisely the reason why they were blocked in the first place - then they can keep on wishing.Because it is not going to happen.They may continue to 'out' me all they please.The next thing you know,I could be a little green man from Mars.Watch this space
  • Ownedgalbabs said on Dec 19, 2008....

    Cuppa since you've blocked me from your blog do try to pretend to be a man and stay off of my blog.  You are not welcome here.  As for you Deanna, do you always feel you have to fight Vince's battles?  Is it because of his illness that you do?  What about poor dear old Brian?  who's fighting his battles...my but you are both such a saga of pity aren't you?  As for Vince slipping up and refering to me by any Christian name? Wrong.  It was my vanilla blog here...one that i have since taken down that "Vince"  refered to me as babs... as for you caming and claiming to have this friend and that friend....its just that "your word" and as you have told me in numerous emails, "your a good actress" aren't you deanna but not so good as to not have contradicted yourself many, many time over.

  • Ownedgalbabs said on Dec 19, 2008....
    FYI CJ and Pusscat....yes I do have all your emails retained including the those filled with tantrums writen by yourself deanna ....the very one demanding to know why I refused to continue speaking to Vince.
     
    As for your long winded explainations here and chosing to invade my blog...show total lack of self control and very Maureen/Annie like.  lol  No piss off back to your meds and dont bother returning.
  • Ownedgalbabs said on Dec 19, 2008....

    tee hee lucy...."get over yourself and fucking growing up" 

     

    See now thats funny.  Anyone with an ounce of class and/or intellect knows that once one is reduced to the use of profanity then have lost any hope of being accredited as belonging in the adult world...aww poor little child...LOL

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