love a four letter word which mite be the most common and wellknown even 2 the stupedous person in this world.Well the meaning in dictionary for love is described as :

1. feel tender affection for somebody: to feel tender affection for somebody such as a close relative or friend, or for something such as a place, an ideal, or an animal
2.feel desire for somebody: to feel romantic and sexual desire and longing for somebody
3. like something very much: to like something, or like doing, something very much
I love watching old movies on TV.
4.show kindness to somebody: to feel and show kindness and charity to somebody
love your enemies
5. vt have sex with somebody: to have sexual intercourse with somebody (dated) even this is luv no matter with whom u do it lol.

so its not a word to be digested in one single way.As the above desribes love can be directed to any affection or attraction towards a thing ,person or place.And if to be applied on people we are natural to love our parents,relatives,friends etc.But Love in its most common sense is love for a partner,meaning a spouse, girlfrnd, boyfrnd,husband wife etc lets call it physical love.

We tend to fall in this physical love say in our teens may be in thirteens ,the emotion we feel for our opposite sex may not be very reliable at this age but u start having desires to girls or boys of ur age normally in ur early teens.And when we r in our 16 or 17 most of us mite have reguard our selves that we are grown up and a boyfrnd or girl frnd is a must in our life,this is often infuenced by frnds,books,movies and other similar stuffs.And its the age we make our biggest mistakes.And with those mistakes sum of us learn lessons,experience and others chase it in its own ways.

Well millions of quotes,wisdoms,proverbs are made for this physical love.Ive heard love is a wonderful emotion which binds two hearts and souls together.This may be true..but i have a great objection that its tru as long as the love exists ..falling in love may be wonderful as long as ur with the lover..but when they breaks apart the wonderful emotion becomes a suffering,desperation and a pain.A very few ppl are lucky enuf to sustain this love with their partners.And well i dont want to talk abt my first love,the first physical love of cuz ,as i got a bitter expereince in it.And i have forgotten abt it ..

So when person reaches up to his mid 20s he or she mite have got sum expereince for themselves and shud be able to make a definition of his own.So according to mine..I would define luv is an infatuation ,an attraction u have towards sumone.and as long as the infatuation is there ,u care,u desire,u need n rely on ur lover.But soon u mite find sumone more attractive (not only in luks,in different ways)n the infatuation dissapears itself.This definition is not only based on my own experience ..i have learn a lot thru others expereince and mistakes ..n most of the love stories are ended like this.Even marriages after u got kids.

Heres a typical example:When u start a new relationship with sumone whom u get infatuated ..o lot of attention from ur partner will be visible..will call u,gift u,will aspire u with abundant vows and hopes,will take u to cloud nine,will claim i cannot live without u,u r my soul ,u r my life blah blah ..but with the time his attention starts to fade,he becomes busy and that wud be the only word u will hear often from him/her and finally the love collapse and mite be built on with sumone else.Even the relationships that mite have seems long like 6 or seven years it remain cuz one of the love birds compromise each other and accepts his spouse as it is.bt that love never remains the same ..i bet it.

i dunno how many of u will agree with me but try to luk at the people revolving around u...relatives,frnds,neighbours,celebrities,may be ur own parents this typical script can be found with no difficulty.I bet 9 out of 10 relationships mite have been broken for this reason.Human logic is grotesque, we always desire for wut we dont have.Thats y human wants are unlimited.So is the reason behind it.

Anyways my point is not to mesmerize u to never fall in love.But to tell u my perception that i dont expect physical love from any one.I have been single for a long long time..sum of my frnds feel that i have let one person ruined my whole life..but its not tru ..i didnt waste my time hating him..or hating others for wut he did.bt its that i jsut remained calm without chasing love..cuz love is wonderful jsut for a moment..and the pain u get after is more violent ....so i dont want to fall in love ..and its better for me..I have kept physical love aside and all the other types of love im so attached 2 them ..I love so many things,I love many people n places .And im happy with that. !!! I love natural beauty,sum technological devices,basketball,books..blah blah....I love my mom, my family, my frnds n kids who deoasnt even know me . . . but inside myself there is a place where I live all alone and that's where I renew my springs that never dry up.bt may be in sumwhere in my life i mite find a guy who is capable to be get married 2 me , i will do it n will try my best to feedback him the way he treats me ..Cuz i belive in marriage and its not a game as it seems nowadays for that i need patience,so im not desperate as i know god will never be cruel to those who remember him.