I'm having a hard time forgiving this girl who messed up my relationship with my boyfriend. I don't really know this girl but I see her around town sometimes and when I do see her I just want to go up and slap her silly ( hehehe its a nice thought huh?) but I know I shouldn't feel that way towards her. I know she meant to mess our relationship up because she was the one who kept on going after my boyfriend. And you know guys...being weak towards women went for it, since we were having problems in our relationship at the time too he felt it was his way out of our relationship and just left me. Well, they ended up going together for like 4 months but my boyfriend couldn't deny that he still loved me and he won me back 2 months after they broke up. This happened about 2 years ago. I know its been a long time and I shouldn't dwell in the past. But there are just times where I can't forget what happened and find it hard to forgive her. It's hard to forget because I was with the guy for 3 years and then he just left me for that freaking girl! It made me really depressed during that time. I couldn't eat, concentrate at work, I was feeling so lost and confused at why it all happened. And there were times when I would just cry. I was in a horrible shape at the time and it hurt a lot. I guess its really hard to get over something like that because until now I still can't get over it completely even if it happened 2 years ago. I'm fine if I don't remember what happened but there are just some things that triggers my memory and I end up hating and crying again and again. Sometimes I wish she would get to experience the pain that I had to go through or even worse pain. But I know what I'm thinking is bad. I just like to think that Karma will eventually find her oneday when she leasts expect it. She actually has a new boyfriend now and me and my boyfriend are having a better relationship now more than ever. I want the girl to tell me that she's sorry but I know that's not going to happen. She really hates my boyfriend for crawling back to me too. He had to change his cellphone number so that he can't receive her harassing SMS's. Anyway, so that's how it was...if it were to happen to you, do you think you would forgive the girl? How easy would it be for you?