Divource, ever present with us, on the increase everywhere, but we are all so hush hush about it.This more true in Africa.

The greatest challange is the need to explain to family and freinds because you do not know what they have heard.

Some people facing divource find it difficult to continue with their life.

The remedy is to take responsibility for your mistakes. It is not a time to apportion blames because even if you find a place to place the blame it does not make the problem go away.

Then forgive yourself and very important forgive your ex. because in mosr cases we see the ones we love as we want them to be, not as thyey really are.

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