After finding out my mother had blocked my boyfriends number on my cell phone, I had went a step further, I started to sneak around to see him. I didn't want it to be that way, but I have told my parents time and time again that I love him and he loves me and were not breaking up. They never listened to me...Then I thought there was only one solution left for me...Move out..
September 14, 2008 at 7:15am is the day I left a note on the Kitchen Counter telling my parents I have left, but I am safe. I moved out. My boyfriend and I moved with his parents and then eventually got our own place. I now live about 3 and half hours away from my parents house.
The day I moved out and few days after my boyfriend told me I need to call my mother and let her know I am safe and where I was at and I did. It was hard for me to hear my mother cry, probably one of the worst things to hear. I told her I want to learn to be an adult, and learn my own mistakes. Until this day she is still telling me she had my whole life planned out for me....I have asked many people even my own Aunt's and Uncle's and they have told me she cannot be the one to plan my life for me, It's my life I need to plan it myself. I have also been told by my mother that I will probably be going to hell since I am living with my boyfriend...I want her and everyone to know, let me make my own mistakes. We honestly do not know if we are going to hell or not.
Now it has been two months later and my own mother tells me she does not want me calling her, texting her or even emailing her until I make a change. Lucky for me, my father wants to have a relationship with me.
To be honest, after moving out, I can say I have been happier. My family and friends notice it in me. They have always told me that my mother liked to control me and my life. I still wish I was able to make everyone happy...and life would be easy, but I have learned in spite of everything, you can never make everyone happy, and life will never be easy.
But here is my Question....
Have I made a huge Mistake or am I learning what its like to grow up?
comments???
pinkdiamonds11 posted on Dec 06, 2008
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luvin12 said on Dec 07, 2008....
Hi,
After reading your profile,i decided to seek your consent to secure my inherited Estate.Apparent i am still a Student and i intend to further my Studies abroad under your guardianship.I will make it worth-your-while for 15% of the said Estate,but your role is to help me fulfill the administrative formalities required to facilitate the smooth conclusion of it.For further details reply directly to private mail box;(yaya.christelle@ymail.com)
Regards,
Christelle
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