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What is it with men that makes them treat you like shit after a while? In the beginning of a relationship they're wonderful. They pour on the charm, make you think you're special, treat you with utmost respect, etc... etc.... Then they get comfortable and all this soars right out the window. What's the deal? Is it inevitable? Is it nature's instinct that the longer you are with someone, the more you take them for granted? So frustrating....

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  • anonymous said on May 11, 2006....
    it always becomes a day to day routine when your with someone for a while. It's just the nature of life :(
  • sillyman said on May 11, 2006....
    You need to understand what the real life means, sometimes plain is the real.
  • lovelessgirl said on May 11, 2006....
    I totally agree! I try to tell myself that not all men are jerks, but so many are. And with time it does seem to get worse. I think it's a mixture of comfort and boredom. They probably still love you, but they are bored and too comfortable. But right now, I think I'll settle for comfort over meaningless dating.
  • SOLDIERCIPSWIFE said on May 13, 2006....
    Oh don't be over men yet!!! So I thought the same thing on my first marriage..I wanted out so bad. I was too scared, I thought that after awhile everything was supposed to be...well ordinary. The sex, the talks, the day to day routine, the feeling of absolute and total love. Then I met Josh. 4 years now and my heart still races when I see him, I get butterfies when he kisses me, and there is nobody else in the world to have a better conversation with...He is out there I so promise you. HE will show up just like they say, when you don't expect it. Mine did...and I thank God for him everyday...several times :)
  • eclectic79 said on May 18, 2006....
    Men are pigs. I know, I'm a man. They're always interested in the latest model instead of the older dependable one. That's why they always get screwed. (you can take that however you want). You can see the difference between men & women by comparing pornography and romantic novels. Men want sex with beautiful women (note that I said "women", not "woman") and women want a man who will stick with her though the tough times (and it helps if he's hot too...). It's a tough world out there. It's not easy finding a guy - the deck is stacked against you. I wish you good luck when you decide to enter back into the game ;)
  • anonymous said on May 21, 2006....
    Anybody ever go with someone with bipolar two disorder? I have put in almost 7 years with someone with the illness who is talented, but always in trouble, i.e., put up with different woman, his problems with them and domestic violence and legal problems, and yes, I agree about some men always depending on you, treating you like crap, and then breaking up with you to go to the next model, when predictably, it will always end after the novelty runs off on the latest model. Men always seem to come back after you get your stuff together, sometimes a year, sometimes just a few months. But they always seem to come back at a time long enough to know that it's too long to bring up the crud they did wrong... and then just at the point you get your stuff together...why is it not at a time when you could actually dialogue and accomplish something?
  • underdogtoo said on Jun 13, 2006....
    Men are jerks, myself included. Relationships are naturally difficult and I'm no expert in it. Men have problems too, with women. Go figure.

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It's been a while since I have written. Not that a great deal has happened.
Still seeing my secret lover of just over five months, although things have started to slide....
One of my friends at work was telling me about this date she went on the other night, and she wanted a man's opinion about the whole thing. I was more than happy to tell her what I thought, but I am curious what other people might think too....
i'm catapulting myself headfirst into a situation that reeks of hurt for the fraggle. it may even be too late to stop me....
Why do things always get worse? I hope this is a 'It's getting worse before it gets better.' sort of thing ... but I hope the better doesn't leave me alone, standing in the dust....

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